i'm a guy like u described.

bear in mind :

older guy- got career/financial, more experience, wiser and so on.
but may be less energy + dont wana entertain childish stuffs

younger guy - grow wif u along ur journey, poorer or less financially steady, but accompany u all along. more energy, more adventurous.

both have pros n cons, depends on what u want.

d same concept applies to gal:

- young gal : naive, less mature, more active, less demanding, less financially ready, will go thru life's journey even at difficult time, etc

- older gal : more demanding, more mature, financially steady, less active, just wanna settle down, etc

rmb, guys will look at u d same way too.