Hi gals,

I'm new here and do need some advice.

I'm 22 this year and I have a bf almost the same age. But I've realized that my taste towards guys like my age is not attractive to me anymore.

I kinda start to fall for men at his age 30-40 like that. Is that normal actually? I don't know what to do.

Need some advice.

I suppose it's normal. Women tend to be attracted to older guys. They are more mature I guess.

If you find yourself falling out of love with your bf, then better break the news to him.

You sure is not because of their career and financial background ? at least thats what i gathered from my pool of gal friends which is in your shoes.

When you do meet someone you really like, does it matter anymore?

I knew him through my bf... somewhat they're related?

But i can say no doubt that guy is charming...

You sure it has nothing to do with him being (probably) more financially stable?

The 'maturity' argument is misinformed at best.

You're fit to be a mistress

I don't know

I just find him more mature and steady... Financially? He's working in a bank and in quite a stable position.

But overall, just thought would it be weird to really date a man over half of my age...

Later ppl think I'm a gold digger pulak

He's single la... He just broke up beginning of the year

wait until youre 35-45,

you will look for someone younger (20-28).

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This post has been edited by placenta: Oct 25 2013, 09:40 AM

It's quite simple actually, an older guy is like different from the people our age. People our age, when we see older guys, they are like more knowledgeable, full of experience, financially comfortable, confident, knows what he is doing and knows how to handle things in a proper way. Or maybe you could just be attracted to his charms.

But actually, that is only one part you see, every one has an immature and negative side to them.

Then again, I know many couples where the husband/bf is significantly older than them (at least 10 years). One example, my dad is almost 20 years my mum's senior. And usually these couples turn out great.

This post has been edited by munkeyflo: Oct 25 2013, 10:45 AM

Ya that's the thing.

But that's just one thing I don't get it is why isn't he married? I mean, since when he has a gf previously, with man that age, should be married edi.

Exactly. Like what I said before, everyone has a downside to them.

Well, it could be that he is single by choice. Not everyone dreams of getting married and starting a family.
It could also mean that there is a reason why he is still single. Why doesn't other women want him when he is so desirable? There has to be a reason if he is not single by choice. Maybe he just hasn't found the right women to accept him for who he is yet.

Over half of my age, plus he's a stable guy, how to approach him?

Normally guys with age like that would find someone more mature or on par with him right?

True. Older guys generally wouldn't want to waste their time being with a dramatic immature girl. And most girls our age are dramatic and immature.

I've no idea on how to approach him though. If he's not interested to get a girl also can't do much.

oh gosh...

If your bf is related to him it might not be a good idea to approach him.. it might trigger flags..

TS, what you want to know? I just hit 30. Ask me anything.

This post has been edited by Plant: Oct 25 2013, 04:31 PM

asking a forum on how to approach a guy which was introduced to you by ur boyfriend because ur romantically/sexually attracted to him

cheers for this thread