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ruby^haneda
post Oct 6 2013, 01:41 PM

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QUOTE(Bangala @ Oct 6 2013, 12:04 PM)
Looook, my girlfriend of 10 months is ignoring me right now. I didn't text her like for 9 days to see if she would text back, and to my assumption she didn't.
Then i started to call her and text her, she doesn't even reply to me.
I mean why girls don't just say what's on their mind?
Thins are normal between us, just that that day i told her that we'll reevaluate the relationship cause she wasn't putting effort into relationship. I'm not mad if she wanna break up, but just inform rather than ignoring. What should i do?
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Y did u stop texting for 9 days in the first place? Did u guys have a fight or something
ruby^haneda
post Oct 6 2013, 01:57 PM

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QUOTE(wangpr @ Oct 6 2013, 01:47 PM)
Your sentence always make me laugh n smile.. a good medicine and cure to me

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I kinda agree with u. His nick suits him, funnybone biggrin.gif
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post Oct 6 2013, 02:53 PM

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QUOTE(Bangala @ Oct 6 2013, 02:07 PM)
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Okay, last month i ask her like why she doesn't initiate much, and she didn't give me any reason behind it, stating that she doesn't know and I maybe PMS that day and told her that we'll reevaluate this relationship (I know i screw up this part) and something about giving up on her if i didn't ask her the reason why? so i guess that she may have assume that we're done and i didn't contact her for 9 days that day, cause I was having road trip with friends also.
So last 2 days i called her twice and messaged her once, and no reply. I know that things is my fault also, but come to think 9 days and she never didn't even contact me?

So how do I go about it? I don't really wanna lose her, but I still like her. I just want to talk to her, but kena ignore pulak.
I've decided to push aside my pride and see how things go.
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As hard as it is for you to do, I think u should keep ur pride and let her go. See if she comes back. Otherwise it's clear she doesn't need or want u that much.
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post Oct 8 2013, 11:07 AM

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QUOTE(Bangala @ Oct 7 2013, 08:52 PM)
Okay, she at last replied to my facebook messages but I think she gave up hope already.
I told her that if i didn't call you can call me. and she replied "You didn't contact me for a week so I assume you wont contact me la".
But her main phone still switch off, couldn't get her.
I guess this is really over d, I just want the chance to talk to her one last time and just gently part ways, and not just ignoring each other and move on. At least we've dated and think it of something like the last respect before I stop all communication with her and leave her alone.
I've tried to communicate but her reply just couldn't make it.  sad.gif
What do you guys think? Until then I can't really think properly and it affects my studying life.
Please give me insight on how do I bring this matter up.
Thanks in advance.
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since u decided to let go and she doesnt wanna come out and see u, best way is to bite the bullet and no contact. she will contact u when she is ready, hence u focus on ur studies. it's hard to do, it sucks, but tell urself, its all for the better.

when u get sad, just occupy urself with things to do, going out with friends help a lot, since u are studying i think that can be accomplised easily. thumbup.gif

 

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