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Girlfriend ignoring me. Help
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aspire2oo6
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 Oct 7 2013, 09:09 AM
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QUOTE(Bangala @ Oct 7 2013, 12:03 AM) You know there's always people saying that don't be too desperate, and i follow this rules and as oppose you say i should call her 100x. I feel like calling her but u know later she feel like I'm desperate, and like annoyed. If given the opportunity I would call her till she picks up.  It depends how you approach it. If call 100 times and given the right explanation the girl know you are concern and value the relationship. If you call to complaint or scold her she sure will annoyed. |
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aspire2oo6
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Oct 7 2013, 10:56 AM
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QUOTE(Prometric @ Oct 7 2013, 10:53 AM) Words of advice: Gf can ignore bf, but bf cant ignore gf, no matter who's wrong, SHE's ALWAYS right. Even if arguments occured, you have to still msg her morning, ask her how's her lunch, tell her you're home from work, good night etc. (EVEN THOUGH SHE IGNORE YOU). Just continue to do so. Unless you want a breakup Yea you are right. If you do it she forgive you pretty quick if you ignore the more emo and furious she will be. |
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aspire2oo6
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Oct 7 2013, 02:13 PM
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QUOTE(freshstart @ Oct 7 2013, 12:11 PM) did you do something to make your gf angry?? I am now on silent mode with my bf, he did something to piss me off. Best way to mend this is show her you still care, just as prometric mentioned. No you think ppl is mind reader. Silent treatment are for childish ppl. Mature will bring it up and talk about it. Regardless your partner like it or not make it firm sit down and talk it out get it done. |
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aspire2oo6
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Oct 8 2013, 07:26 AM
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QUOTE(Bangala @ Oct 7 2013, 08:52 PM) Okay, she at last replied to my facebook messages but I think she gave up hope already. I told her that if i didn't call you can call me. and she replied "You didn't contact me for a week so I assume you wont contact me la". But her main phone still switch off, couldn't get her. I guess this is really over d, I just want the chance to talk to her one last time and just gently part ways, and not just ignoring each other and move on. At least we've dated and think it of something like the last respect before I stop all communication with her and leave her alone. I've tried to communicate but her reply just couldn't make it. What do you guys think? Until then I can't really think properly and it affects my studying life. Please give me insight on how do I bring this matter up. Thanks in advance. My last advice to you is Do you treasure her? Do you want her. If yes, Please ask her out to talk. Tell her what have happen and tell her you value this relationship . Provide a list of solutions let her choose if she dont get her to suggest. Anybody can give up. It requires intelligence and loyalty to keep go on. If after talk still fails you have tried. If No, Move on |
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