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 a young lady attracted to an older man, I need everyone else's advice

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cfa28
post Aug 19 2013, 10:09 AM

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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 17 2013, 01:08 PM)
thanks everyone again! it looks like a majority of you are against the idea. may i know what is that? is not not common to see a younger lady with a much older guy? any older guys care to give me some advice?
also he used to have a few relationships but none ended up in marriage. maybe he is too obsessed with his work.
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What sort of relationship are you looking for:

a) Short term - just a fling

b) Mid Term - until u find someone younger who is just as rich

c) Long Term - for Life, etc

If its (a) or (b), go for it. He's rich, you're young.

But assuming its ©, do u want to be tied down so young. How many men have u dated? Do u want kids, when? What about hin, does he want kids.

Btw, I think there is a good chance that your man may be GAY. So, do try to find out before jumping in.


QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 17 2013, 11:03 AM)
thanks some of you for your replies. Well, hates gonna hate.
I am not entirely sure if i will still like him if he loses his job, but as of right now i really enjoy the thrill of the thought of being with him. I am sick of "guys" and now i need a "man," someone like him who can give me a sense of security and who can guide me. (he is a specialist doctor and is definitely not gay)

Please stop giving unhelpful comments. I don't think i mind the gap, because with him being 42 and me being 22, he is still relatively younger than my father.
With that being said, what do you think he will think of the gap, from a man's perspective? Any male's insights will be much appreciated. Also, i will be grateful if you can give me some tips on "seducing" (duh) him.
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Specific tips on how to seduce him / make him take notice.

1) Wear a revealing low cut blouse with a half-cup bra and pretend to drop something, pen, etc and bend down to pick it up.
2) Wear short skirt with G-String and same thing, drop something and bend down to pick it up.

After that, give him a cheeky smile and wink.

Btw, do u know how Monica Lewenski got Bill's attention. She was on the upper floor, wearing a mid-lenght skirt with no panties and Bill was at the lower floor and she called Mr President and when Bill looked up, it was the scene from Basic Instint. True Story

If he does not give you any specific look / stare, or contact u for drinks, that means, he's GAY.

This post has been edited by cfa28: Aug 19 2013, 12:22 PM
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post Aug 21 2013, 07:28 PM

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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 16 2013, 09:11 PM)
HI everyone, i think i will go straight into the point. I am a 22-year-old woman and recently i am attracted by a man 20 years my senior. ....

... but i can't stop thinking about him and want to have all his babies! i am totally sold and think he looks sexy in every way!

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QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 20 2013, 06:23 PM)
ya, i will start from dating him casually. No rush, so i can observe him carefully while being with him. But seriously, being with him does direct my life to a much more interesting direction because he is so much more experienced in everything in life, and ya, the birds and the bees. I don't see myself losing anything as of right now.
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Good for you, he has taken the bait. You certainly have taken the initiative since your first post on Aug 16 (just 3-days). Wanted to tell u to take it slow but



QUOTE(choclover9 @ Aug 21 2013, 04:00 PM)
Thank you everyone. Haha! It's awkward to tell but his machine does function really damn well tongue.gif
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Wow, that was fast (just 5 days after your first post) but if you can say that his machine functions damn well, is it serious or still casual. Cos you sound serious all this while. Is he serious or its just a physical thingy.

Hate to see a SYT get hurs



 

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