@btfan: what kind of social network you were talking about? at least that guy who worked in the mall didn't ask fo rmy number the first time he saw me. he started off by greeted me every time he sees me by saying "hi! how are you?" then after payment, he will say "bye, have a nice day". very casual yet normal service right? then, after a few more times he saw me, he will ask "where do i work? where do i live? what am i working as". then stopped.. and said have a nice day to me. Then, after a few more times, he will go like "you look nice today" or something along that line..

every time he saw me, he will greet me with this brightest smile ever. i think i was sort of attracted by his smile too. at first i thought he did that to all customers as in.. basic hospitality but i did observe him quite a bit that he didn't greet other customers.. but when it's my turn to pay, he will say "hi and smile". haha!

so, by that way, i am slowly getting more and more comfortable talking to him.. hence during his last day working in that mall, when he asked to keep in touch, i said yes. i am pretty sure if he asked for my number the first time i saw him, i would have said no.

i will usually say "i have bf".. can't say married cus i don't have a ring. haha!

Hmm I think it will be very rude and unprofessional if he were to ask the customer for their contacts for his own personal interest. Can't imagine if his boss were to find out. So I assumed things worked out between you and that shopping mall guy? Haha.

Lol!! Just the eyes portion can't tell much. Haha! Anyway, my friends always say when am not smiling, I look like I wanna kill someone. So, I don't think I have that friendly look that tell others to "please approach me" sign. Hehe!

i usually use "I am married with 3 kids" on taxi driver. sometimes some drivers will just talk to you, then started to ask do you bf yet or something like that.. then ask for my number. then, i will usually say, oh i am married with 3 kids. LOL!

hey dont fall for me k,im not available dy hehehe.If me i sure dont like to shop alone,very boring .Later you say you married already they reply you back married already can divorce ma,so still got chances then you jia lat.

So best is you make a man voice out,then sure they keep quiet or you pretend to be mute then they cannot approach you also

Beware of bad guys out there. Malaysia aint safe anymore since there are so many illegal foreign workers roaming around the streets in KL. Dont walk alone in the streets especially quiet places. So far i nvr notice this kind of things in LRT station though. TS, your eyes is pretty wat    And 45kg yard stick doesn't apply to everyone, of coz must see the height also. If too tall then 45kg is a walking stick already.

Just dont simply talk to strangers. Ppl say u laan si den just let them be. Better to be safe than sorry

Just dont simply talk to strangers. Ppl say u laan si den just let them be. Better to be safe than sorry

I just try to find a fine line in between. Rejection yet able to keep the politeness?

I just try to find a fine line in between. Rejection yet able to keep the politeness?

Sometimes ppl u really no interest ones you can just say a stern NO since u wouldn't want to meet them again. If you give too much face, ppl will think u just want to jual mahal only and tarik harga. Serious....Ur good intention becomes mistakenly understood