i still believe that beating is not a good way to bring up a kid.
the harder you beat, the bad it gets. just like anti biotic. take more of it, the immune system wont be able to beat the next war.
now i see my wife and mum always scold my son, where in turn i scolded them back.
the child is innocent. We adults keep forcing the child where he has already stated that he dont want anymore. When the child retaliate, we said the child is bad mannered, ill tempered and shyt.
kalaulah budak itu tidak dipaksa, mana mungkin bebudak tahu nak rebel.
i dont beat my child. i dont scold my child. i reason with my child. even though sometimes it sound stern, but i never raised my voice to them.
*harap harap 20 tahun kemudian, dia tak pukul aku dah la.....