my mom catholic married my dad who was a Buddhist, and me a Buddhist married a Christian, 1 Malaysia

same one la both catholic/Christians... the only difference is the level of faith of the person oni

I am guessing this will turn into something of a "if u are not of the same faith with me you will rot in hell" kinda scenario...

actually what kind of preparations are u talking about? care to be more specific?

so many of my catholic/Christian frens had both catholic and christian weddings too

kindly be more specific, u are asking whether there is a need for the Buddhist or the catholic to attend the course?

This post has been edited by adam_lss: Jun 24 2013, 11:07 AM

both me and my dad didn't attend any, but some may do it to please the partner. in many ways, it is entirely up to the couple, for us, the question of why need to go n attend course since you are not going to convert? if you think you are not going to change ur faith, then my honest reply is that u do not need to attend coz you will be lying to urself and ur current faith, end up u become a hypocrite

church wedding or simple Chinese style, I can only say that it is a joint decision, coz u wont know whom u may "offend" for skipping such important ceremony

my answer to u, again, do discuss with ur partner and the parish involved. some may allow, some may not... if church wedding is something ur partner would like to have, it is just a small sacrifice for u to do for ur love ones

why not do a garden church wedding? then no need to do in the church d