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post Jun 24 2013, 08:36 AM, updated 13y ago

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Need some advice
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post Jun 24 2013, 09:35 AM

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QUOTE(akidos @ Jun 24 2013, 08:50 AM)
got many ...
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QUOTE(getitdoone @ Jun 24 2013, 08:51 AM)
Why ?
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Ya i know got many. But any forummers here that can give advice?
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post Jun 24 2013, 09:53 AM

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QUOTE(adam_lss @ Jun 24 2013, 09:41 AM)
my mom catholic married my dad who was a Buddhist, and me a Buddhist married a Christian, 1 Malaysia smile.gif
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Ya but I think catholic and christian different. Christian shud b haf more rules compared catholic.
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post Jun 24 2013, 10:12 AM

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QUOTE(adam_lss @ Jun 24 2013, 09:58 AM)
same one la both catholic/Christians... the only difference is the level of faith of the person oni
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Ya im not into the faith discussion thing. Just the procedure before marriage, what is allow, not alow i think is different between christian and catholic.

QUOTE(getitdoone @ Jun 24 2013, 09:58 AM)
what do you want to know
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U r catholic marry non catholic? I wanna know the preparations and what is need to do for such kind of marriage and what to expect. Those experience before easier for me to ask the question
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post Jun 24 2013, 11:02 AM

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QUOTE(adam_lss @ Jun 24 2013, 10:44 AM)
actually what kind of preparations are u talking about? care to be more specific?

so many of my catholic/Christian frens had both catholic and christian weddings too
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QUOTE(alexng2208 @ Jun 24 2013, 10:46 AM)
i'm catholic marrying a buddhist
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I have few questions but maybe ill start one by one so not to confuse.

If catholic marry buddhist and want to wedding in church, is it need to attend a course for 1 year?

The buddhist is not convert to catholic. Still remain buddhist but just 1 to make the wedding in church.
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post Jun 24 2013, 11:08 AM

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QUOTE(adam_lss @ Jun 24 2013, 11:06 AM)
kindly be more specific, u are asking whether there is a need for the Buddhist or the catholic need to attend the course?
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ya is it a requirement?

As i heard both couple must attend some ind of course as a requirement to marry in church? But Im not sure if one partner is buddhist then need or not.
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post Jun 24 2013, 11:21 AM

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QUOTE(adam_lss @ Jun 24 2013, 11:11 AM)
both me and my dad didn't attend any, but some may do it to please the partner. in many ways, it is entirely up to the couple, for us, the question of why need to go n attend course since you are not going to convert? if you think you are not going to change ur faith, then my honest reply is that u do not need to attend coz you will be lying to urself and ur current faith, end up u become a hypocrite smile.gif
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Thats my question! lol.

If i do not need to attedn the course then I will skip it. Not sure if that is the requirement for marry in church.

I think thats the difference between catholic and christian they haf different rules some need to do some no need
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post Jun 24 2013, 11:24 AM

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QUOTE(alexng2208 @ Jun 24 2013, 11:12 AM)
You'd have to consult the parish priest

usually ME is encouraged though

i am not going through ME nor a church wedding. but you could check, which parish?
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Is it u din marry in church due to many restrictions? If got many that we cant fulfil i also think just skip church and do the chinese style.

QUOTE(barista @ Jun 24 2013, 11:17 AM)
Can. Same for everyone. Catholic and non-catholic. Both must attend the CMPC course.
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Other than the course got any other rules need to follow for marry in chruch?
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post Jun 24 2013, 11:29 AM

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QUOTE(barista @ Jun 24 2013, 11:25 AM)
Just get the certificate and you're good to go.
For Catholic marrying non-Catholic, you don't get a full mass that's all.
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What the difference between full mass and wedding service? No gospel, no communion and stuff like dat? Then will be shorter? SHud b a good one if finish fast lol

QUOTE(adam_lss @ Jun 24 2013, 11:27 AM)
church wedding or simple Chinese style, I can only say that it is a joint decision, coz u wont know whom u may "offend" for skipping such important ceremony

my answer to u, again, do discuss with ur partner and the parish involved. some may allow, some may not... if church wedding is something ur partner would like to have, it is just a small sacrifice for u to do for ur love ones smile.gif
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Ya i know will offend some relatives who r like fanatics. But for parents both already confirm ok. Just cant please everyone la. Marry is between my family only la. Relatives all dun care offend or not.
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post Jun 25 2013, 08:17 AM

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QUOTE(khool @ Jun 24 2013, 11:37 AM)
Please take note also, Catholic weddings are usually held on Saturdays before Sunset Mass
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Church wedding is morning ma. My bro just got married in church and is morning.

QUOTE(alexng2208 @ Jun 24 2013, 11:37 AM)
ME 1 year.. only then can go church marry

i urgent case lol so cannot qualify
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Oh urgent case brows.gif

But yours is both also catholic la not so complicated

 

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