QUOTE(kaizer3000 @ Jul 16 2013, 12:54 PM)
but a guy is different from a girl. from wad my gf tells me, she can control her urges very easily.
when she is horny, she can turn it off just like that. but when a guy is horny, its harder to turn it off. but that dun mean u must "do" it with him ...its still ur choice to make love to him or not. if he truly loves u, he will respect u and wont kacau u. but of coz, u have to explain to him also why u unwilling to make love to him...coz some guys tend to get upset if he was rejected. some even uses the excuse "huh, u dun love me anymore, issit??"
So there's a switch?
As a female, I can't just 'turn it off' unless there is something that is turning me off, which will turn me off for a while but it'll come back again soon. If I want sex, I will want it everyday until I get it. Your gf may be like that (or she may be just lying or unaware of what's happening), but one thing for sure, you cannot generalize all females as being the same as her.
QUOTE(kaizer3000 @ Jul 16 2013, 12:54 PM)
FACT:
a girl's period is very painful n very uncomfortable, until they had made love to a guy and lose their virginity...then their next period wont be as painful anymore...that is why grandmothers/parents often advices their girls to make love ASAP right after marriage...
Sorry, I don't believe that fact is true.
Based on my experience, some girls don't have much cramps, while some can cramp, vomit and faint when they are having PMS. Some girls don't experience any PMS symptoms at all while some need to be bedridden for few days. Everyone body is made different. Heck, I even get different level of pain every cycle. In fact, I don't remember having really bad cramps before I had sex last time.
Period cramps can be caused by various things. One should definitely get it check out with a gynae if it becomes too unbearable.
Grandparents and parents want their kids to have sex after marriage is because babies make them happy.
Anyhow, it would be nice if you could provide some solid scientific prove to back up this fact of yours.