Mak saya telah disahkan mengidap kanser hati tahap 4. Hari hari muntah dan tak lalu makan. =(
i dunno how to react when my mum crying n hug me. now picit kaki mum.
End of rant. Thx
Btw this year my mum always jokes around
Mum: sedap tak mama masak? Kalau mama takde sape nak masak?
Me: laa. Mama jangan la takda. Nanti sapa nak masak sedap2 macamni.
Typing with tears.

This post has been edited by hellkvr: Apr 26 2013, 04:57 PM

tabahkn hati. bnyakkan berdoa. support tu yg pnting. n yg pnting, org sekeliling kna positif. jngan wujudkn suasan negative utk beliau. even dia tngah down sbb sakit, org sekeliling kna kuat n cuba positif/senyum. layan la dia dngan sabar bnyak2. aku doakan yg terbaik.

sempat lagi ko bukak tered..owaii..

banyak bersabar...

is ok TS miracle will happen

life cycle

Be with her.

TS b strong.. Been there.. I pray for her recovery..

chemo is a painful and shitty process. i remember when someone closed to me had leukemia.

Sabar bro...saya doakan ibu awak sihat seperti sediakala...

tabah bro..sedih aku dgar cerita2 mcm ni

be strong ts =(

Pray to god can already. cos god will save your mother. But remember, she cannot go to the hospital or else it will be the doctors who saved her.

Kesian mama. Baru bayar duit pergi haji tahun ni. Now she ask buy ice cream. Never in 24 years she ask me to do that. Now go kedai sambil cry.. Shit.

This post has been edited by hellkvr: Apr 26 2013, 04:44 PM

Sry for wat happen to u.

Dunnid do treatment.
Waste of money.
Better use that money to bring her go jalan-jalan.
Ntg can be done adi.
Just let her enjoy her remaining life.

I'm sorry to hear that. But teman her 2 go around, or travel to the places she like, let her enjoy. Believe it or not, happy do cure every disease. Believe it, its real story. Believing and hold the hope is how miracle happen.

This post has been edited by ragk: Apr 26 2013, 04:46 PM

Stay Strong ...

be strong TS, and your mum too.
live happy and cherish your moments

<3

sigh.. cheer up~

oh mai.. when you said this... i felt sumwhat.. should meet ma mother n father n ask her how's she doin...

all the best TS, my friend's father just passed away today too

be strong

bro.. apa ni.. u buat I almost shed my manly tears man.. straight away my mom cross my mind.. bro, keep your support high ya.. be strong bro..

doa saya pada hari ahad ini adalah untuk ibu ts regardless of ur troll avatar and religion.

Stay strong . We are here to support you .

Be strong and treat her nicely.

FFFfffuuu.. manly tears.. sedih gila woo..

stay and spend your precious time with her.

i'd have done that had I had another chance.

Mana moderator ?!?! PLEASE CLOSE THREAD.

makes me sad liaoooo

btw, aku doakan yg terbaik utk family kau

didoakan ibu saudara kembali sihat. kalau tuhan lebih sayangkan beliau, didoakan semoga diringankan sengsara sblm dijemput kembali..

just dont make a sad face in front ur mom
that will make ur mom become very sad
just cheer her up n make her happy

stay strong TS

apa kata, ko pulak yang masak sedap sedap untuk mama ko tu..

how can suddenly diagnose tahap 4?

bro, tahap 4 memang serious. Anytime RIP(sorry telling the truth)

So I suggest u spend most time with her, make sure the coming mama day *second Sunday May, u celebrate, make her that day happiest one.

incoming mama day also got a lot mama day present for sale one, buy one or 2 also.

brb, gonna find my mama b4 too late

go spend more time with her liao

ajak beliau pergi bercuti. main mahjong bersama pun ok juga

i cried....

TS, please spend more time with her... just try at your level best to fulfill whatever she needs. cancer is painful... the chemo is more painful...

u remind me of a client i had before (she thought mummy joking. she was in london that time. off hp. later come back, all family members curse her to die... she regret full force wan).

i am crying now...

damn it TS. I AM CRYING NOW....!

treasure your mother. i know i do.

Ambil masa yang ade, teman lah mak anda, jgn bazir sesaat pun.

masa tidak menunggu.......

tiba2 bergenang lak air mata, be strong bro!

walter white can make millions during cancer treatment while cooking meth

ur mother gonna be walter white ok

dont sad

Dah start chemotherapy?

yang perokok dekat sini pergi mampus, ada hati buat2 sedih.

but not bad also la..

i'd rather know my death date than living worrying when i will accident and died

brohug...

its time to give her a watch as a gift

so sorry to hear that,
be always beside her and make her happy
be strong, bro

Be strong ts.

Why not you learn to cook your favourite dishes from her, and cook the meals for her to show you will be okay when she is gone.

I lost my mum to cancer too.

Missed her dearly.

Cherish your time with her. Stay strong.

babi ts, i crying
after read this word

if my mom no longer, i will miss her telur sambal

sorry to hear this ts, please get all ur siblings to spend more time with ur mom....

My condolence, OP.

If I may ask, what kind of cancer btw?

Thx for support guys. Pls love ur mum. One and only.

kanser hati

bro try to be with ur mom till her last breath..

stay strong TS, dugaan Tuhan

really sorry to hear that bro..

be strong for her...

sabar banyak2 ts. jangan la tunjuk sedih depan dia so dia boleh tinggalkan anak2 dia dengan tenang.

maybe ada hikmahnya juga kau pun tahu masa dia nak dekat. some unlucky people tak dapat pun bersama mak dia time saat2 akhir. banyak spend time dengan dia.

bro2 /k/ semua support kau.

Love her the best you can. Remember that you are not alone in this world.

Be thankful that you have time to say what you want to say while she is still here.


This post has been edited by Lacersan: Apr 26 2013, 06:10 PM

be strong and take good care of her. may Allah bless her and ur family

kuatkan hati, mang

stay by her side till the very last day.

or you'll regret like me forever. everyday.

I still remembered that particular year where my mom had to go through mothers day & her birthday (yes one week apart only) in the ward. She could barely speak and couldn't eat anything much back then...it all happened in front of my eyes (yes, I spent all day-long by her side in the ward and gave her morale support.) Also, she was so weak during her stay in the ward that she could barely even stand up from her bed (not until the last few days in the ward). It was an unforgettable moment to me and it'll be always in my mind.

Whenever the month of May comes, the past images will go through my mind once again and at times I would shed my manly tears (hiding in the room of course)....

To TS, stay strong and show her that you are in the positive side. Give her morale support and do your best to lend her a hand whenever she needs to.

Till then, I want to say; I love you Mama

be strong, bro..

be strong .......

be strong ts. i know it felt my dad too pass on because of cancer.

spend more time with her. its a very painful disease. stay strong!

Be strong..I know that feel..my aunt as I treated her as my mummy too..passed away due to cancer stage 4 as well..was so shock as affect immediately in just a month..become soooo skinny till I cant really recognised her..with all those oxygen n those duno wat all over her hand..n that was the last time I saw her in hospital..at least she go without suffering anymore..

I miss her!!

Spend more time with her

Things you need to do now. Believe me, i have experience.
1) Pray
2) Read and understand (google) the type of cancer your mum having.
3) Read and make sure what are the best treatment your mum case.
4) Discuss with doctor the best treatment and question them based on what you understand in Internet.

Tips: If the cancer can be removed by surgery, it is the best. (Discuss with doctor)

Early stage 4 cancer still have chances to recovered/cure.

This post has been edited by whyhon: Apr 26 2013, 08:06 PM

ini satu tanda yang jelas. be strong TS.

condolences ts, rather than being sad try to appreciate her more. take leaves if youre workin and spend the week with her.

daripada kau sedih2, cuba jadi happy depan dia. bagi dia yakin yang kau akan okay kalau dia dah xde nanti. naluri mak, lagi risaukan anak2 dari diri sendiri.

cold hard truth bro.. again condolences.

aku tau kau dengan abang kau kuat,stay strong and always teman dia ok,buatla mak kau happy

baru tadi aku ngan abg aku nangis2 mintak maaf. Tough time.

Everybody die sooner or later. Ask her to teach you how to cook your own food so you could remember her. Be strong. Be a good boy. Don't cry.

TS take 1 month off and staywith your mum...

sedih nyer...

be strong ts

Stay strong TS. ;_;

all the best...my uncle oso kena kenser, dieded last year...liver stg 4 oso....by the time he knows too late liao...

May your Mom be well soon TS

TS my only advice spend as much time as u can with her. My mom diagnose with an incurable virus. Sadly n realistically anytime she will pass. So just make her happy from now till then bro. It'll be easier.

i have experienced what u r experiencing. remember this. death is absolute. mati itu pasti...

my late mother past away on the day keluar result SPM. she did not seen my result at all because I was too late to show to her at the hospital.

first thing first pray for your mother health and take care off her, cherish her everyday. I was always the first to help my late mother because I always think maybe this is the last time I will take care off her. Not that I am negative, but that time will be a very valuable memory and experience to take care of your parents.

so think positively and always support her and smile, never talk back to her and give encouragement to her. my late mother breast cancer lvl 4, go to chemo, fever for a week everytime after chemo, must take panadol every 4 hours. but life must go on, now I am still living, working and breathing. still I miss her after 6 years past.

Stop all treatment. Go here and go to Italy for a sure cure. http://www.cancerfungus.com/

spend more time with her....give her what she likes.....been through it and know how you feel....

T_T...

seriously sorry to hear that.

I just gaduh with my mom todei... Feel like an ungrateful bastard.

please bro,,buy this product---> monavie
at first time i never believe this water can cure cancer,,,but i saw with my own eyes,,my friend with level 3or4 cancer,,, can totally cure..
just try,,better than do nothing..
seriously i dont sell this product,,and i dont give a damn about selling weird product that i never heard before.
just try it,,google it..

Sad to hear that, Not sure if this can help, http://goodguy.hubpages.com/hub/Herbal-cure-for-cancer It did cure some of the patient's cancer.

Another one is normally chinese people will eat at the last mile of their life . Is something like hati landak. but not every one can cure by that way.

Stay strong TS, for your mom.

be strong bro....aku doakan kesihatan mak ko...

sorry to hear that bro.

be tough ts, may the force be with you

its ok to cry
those who doesnt shed tears are not human

spend your time with her while you can
make her happy, thats the most important thing you should do

and also, do not give up hope. miracles do happens, regardless of which religions you are in.
treasure your time with her ts, i sincerely hope your mom can make it.

God bless you and your whole family

This post has been edited by EternalC: Apr 27 2013, 09:46 AM

cb u TS, I cried. I very soft-hearted one.

don't give up. we pray for your mum's health..

and don't just depends on what the doctrors tell u.. look for alternative. cuba google.. someone recommend monavie earlier.. u can find other product too like cellfood etc. some ppl may say this is just wasting money/time etc but i don't think any amount of money/time can replace ur mum. u never know unless u try.

tapi becareful jugak coz sometime ppl take advantage and try to scam u. byk doa and solat hajat bro.

APRICOT SEEDS ...

What is Vitamin B17-Laetrile?
A rather long post but please read.

The use of Amygdalin (Laetrile/Vitamin B17) in the treatment of human cancer dates back at least to 1843, although the ancient Chinese are reported to have used bitter almonds containing significant quantities of it in the treatment of tumors some 3,000 years ago.

NATURAL SOURCE
Laetrile is not a miracle drug . It is simply a concentrated form of Nitriloside. Amygdalin (Laetrile/ Vitamin B17) is particularly prevalent in the seeds of those fruits in the Prunus Rosacea family (bitter almond, apricot, blackthorn, cherry, nectarine, peach and plum.) It is found in natural foods which contain nitriloside and has been used and studied extensively for well over 100 years. It is also contained in grasses, maize, sorghum, millet, cassava, linseed, apple seeds, and many other foods that, generally, have been deleted from the menus of modern civilization. Fruit kernels or seeds generally have other nutrients as well, some protein, unsaturated fatty protein, unsaturated fatty acids, and various minerals. The most common source of B17 is the apricot kernel and is present in about a 2-3 percent levels of concentration within the seed kernel.

So there is no confusion please note; there are 3 names which are interchangeable being Vitamin B17, Laetrile and Amygdalin. Vitamin B17 was the name given to the purified form of Amygdalin by a Bio Chemist named Ernst T Krebs in 1952. He also called it Laetrile which is simply short for Lavo-mandelonitrile and was awarded its vitamin status officially in 1952 after advice from Dr Dean Burke who was the co-founder of the National Cancer Institute. Amygdalin on the other hand is said to have been first discovered and used by a German chemist Leibig as far back as 1830. So, laetrile/Vitamin B17 on the other hand is simply a more soluable and concentrated form of amygdalin which allows it to be administered in a much greater concentration. Either way all 3 are essentially the same thing.

Vitamin B17 / Laetrile is probably one of the most controversial medical topics in the last 30 years. You may remember back in the 50's - mid 70's there was a lot hype in the medical world regarding a new natural cancer treatment that was discovered that killed cancer cells. This was the result of Dr Ernst Krebs findings and his research in a book called World Without Cancer. Well after several years of court cases and controversy regarding Laetrile it was finally stamped out by the FDA and reported to the mass media in the US as a fraud and failure. They called it Quackery in those days.

TODAY the hype has and is starting again as a result of THE INTERNET. The internet has allowed us to gain information from all over the world on what perhaps really happened.

So how does B17 kill cancer?...... Here we go....

Firstly we need to understand that our bodies use several enzymes to perform many tasks. Our body has one particular enzyme called Rhodanese which is found in large quantities throughout the body but is not present where ever there are cancer cells. Yet, where ever you find cancer in the body, you find another enzyme called Beta-Glucosidase. So, we have the enzyme Rhodanese found everywhere in the body except at the cancer cells, and we have the enzyme Beta-Glucosidase found in very large quantities only at the cancer cell but not found anywhere else in the body. If there is no cancer in the body there is no enzyme Beta-Glucosidase.

Now the following is what scares most people. You see, Vitamin B17 is made up of 2 parts glucose, 1 part Hydrogen Cyanide and 1 part Benzaldehyde (analgesic/painkiller). So its very important you understand the following:

When B17 is introduced to the body, it is broken down by the enzyme Rhodanese. The Rhodanese breaks the Hydrogen Cyanide and Benzaldehyde down into 2 by-products, Thiocyanate and Benzoic acid which are beneficial in nourishing healthy cells and forms the metabolic pool production for vitamin B12. Any excess of these by-products is expelled in normal fashion from the body via urine. Vitamin B17 passes through your body and does not last longer than 80 minutes inside your body as a result of the Rhodanese breaking it down. (Hydrogen Cyanide has been proven to be chemically inert and non toxic when taken as food or refined pharmaceutical such as laetrile. Sugar has be shown to be 20 times more toxic than B17.

HERE IS THE GOOD PART - When the B17 comes into contact with cancer cells, there is no Rhodanese to break it down and neutrelise it but instead, only the enzyme Beta-Gucosidase is present in very large quantities. When B17 and Beta-Glucosidase come into contact with each other, a chemical reaction occurs and the Hydrogen Cyanide and Benzaldehyde combine synergistically to produce a poison which destroys and kills the cancer cells.

This whole process is known as selective toxicity. Only the cancer cells are specifically targeted and destroyed.

Good & Bad Cyanide?

We all know that cyanide is bad for you, yet here we are jumping up and down saying its good for you because it kills cancer. Lets look at the real story.

Hydrogen Cyanide must be FORMED!! There is no free Hydrogen Cyanide in laetrile floating around freely in our body waiting to harm us when we eat apricot seeds or take laetrile. The enzyme Beta-Glucosidase, and only that enzyme is capable of manufacturing and forming the Hydrogen Cyanide from Laetrile. If there are no cancer cells in the body, there is no beta-glucosidase. If there is no beta-glucosidase, no hydrogen cyanide will be formed from laetrile. Even if there were some other way to manufacture cyanide from laetrile in the body, the amount would be so minute it would have little, if any toxic effect.

Laetrile does on the other hand contain the cyanide radical (CN-). So does Vitamin B12 , Cassava and strawberries and a host of other foods we consume. You never heard of anyone getting cyanide poison from vitamin B12 or from eating strawberries because it just does not happen. Lets also look at table salt which is made up of sodium Chloride (NaCl) and is very common in most households. Yet, did you know pure sodium (Na+) is one of the most toxic substances known to man? Yet in their form locked together they are not toxic. Any good toxicologist will tell you sugar is 20 times more toxic than laetrile and salt is also much more toxic.

Now, here is the irony of all of this. Milligram for milligram, the chemotherapeutic agents which are commonly used in the treatment of cancer today, are hundreds of times more toxic than laetrile.

The best way to prove or disprove the vitamin B17 theory of cancer, would be to take several thousands of people, over a period of many years, expose them to a consistent diet of B17 rich nitriloside foods and then check the results. Fortunately this has already occurred by the study of the following cultures; The Hunza, aboriginal Eskimos, Hopi and Navajo Indians, Abkhazians.

HUNZA
In the remote recesses of the Himalayan Mountains, between West Pakistan, India and China there is a tiny Kingdom called Hunza. These people are known world over for their amazing longevity and health. They live well beyond 100 years and have commonly been known to still father children at the age of 110. One of the first medical teams to study the Hunza was headed by world-renown British surgeon Dr Robert McCarrison. Writing in the AMA Journal Jan 7, 1922 he reported:

"The Hunza has no known incidence of cancer. They have an abundant crop of apricots. These they dry in the sun and use largely in their food".

It is interesting to note that the traditional Hunza Diet contains over 200 times more nitriloside (B17 Rich food) than the average American or Australian Diet. There is no such thing as money in Hunza. A mans wealth is measured by the number of apricot trees he owns. And the most prized of all foods was considered to be the apricot seed. It is very common for the Hunza to eat between 30 - 50 (ie. about 30mg of B17) apricot seeds as an after lunch snack. The thousands of seeds they do not eat they store or grind them very finely and then squeezed under pressure to produce a very rich oil used in cooking and to apply to the skin. The apricot is staple food in Hunza. They use the apricot, its seed and the oil for practically everything. In addition to the ever present apricot, the hunzahuts eat mainly grain and fresh vegetables. These include buckwheat, millet, alfalfa, peas, broad beans, turnips, lettuce, sprouting pulse and berries of various sorts. All of these with the exception of lettuce and turnips contain vitamin B17.

It is important to know when the Hunza leave their secluded land and adopt the menus of other countries, they soon succumb to the same diseases and infirmities including cancer as the rest of man kind.

ESKIMOS
The Eskimos are another people that have been observed by medical teams for many decades and found to be totally free of cancer. The traditional Eskimo diet is amazingly rich in B17 nitrilosides that come from the residue of of the meat of caribou and other grazing animals, and also from the salmon berry. Another Eskimo delicacy is green salad made out of the stomach contents of caribou and reindeer which are full of fresh tundra grass. Tundra grasses such as Arrow are have shown to be contain the highest content of B17 than other grasses.

Alaska's most famous doctor Dr Preston A Price claims that, "In his 36 years of contact with these people he had never seen a single case of malignant disease among the truly primitive Eskimos, although it frequently occurred when they were modernized.

An interesting point to note is that when an Eskimo leaves his traditional way of life and begins to rely on a western/modern diet he becomes even more cancer prone than the average American.

HOPI & NAVAJO INDIANS
The Indians of North America are another people who are remarkably free from cancer. The AMA went as far as conducting a special study in an effort to discover why there was little to no cancer amongst the Hopi and Navajo Indians. The February 5, 1949 issue of the journal of the American Medical Association declared that they found 36 cases cases of malignant cancer from a population of 30,000. In the same population of white persons there would have been about 1800. Dr Krebs research later found that the typical diet for the Navajo and Hopi Indian consisted of nitriloside-rich foods such as Cassava. He calculated that some of the tribes would ingest the equivalent of 8000mg of Vitamin B17 per day from their diet !!!

ABKHAZIANS
The Abkhazians are found deep in the Caucasus Mountains on the Northwest side of the Black Sea. They are a people with almost the exact same health record and longevity as the Hunzakuts.Their food and lifestyle having to live in a harsh rugged terrain are almost identical. They follow a diet which is low in carbohydrates, high in vegetable proteins and rich in minerals and vitamins, especially vitamin B17.