QUOTE(EddyLB @ Apr 9 2013, 08:27 AM)
I agree with both bosses

But with exceptions.
"Rich" to different people have different perception. When you are contented with what you have, usually you will feel rich. The number of zeros in your bank account does not matter to define "rich"
But to a greedy man, he will never feel rich.
I involve a lot in business associations. Thus I know a lot of businessmen friends in a few industries. In general (maybe 90%), these rich businessmen do CARE about how people thought about them. And mind you, their businesses are worth tens of millions or hundreds of millions. Some are Datuks and Tan Sri who own a few listed companies. Are they not rich enough ? They drive fancy cars. If a new model is out, they are the first ones to drive and show off to everyone. They wear those expensive watches. They always boost about their overseas trip that cost hundreds of thousand. Children education, wife's designer bags/cloths and even how many mistresses and which famous model became their mistresses ! They always compete against each other. If one friend says out loud his car/watch is not good enough, the friend become his enemy immediately. What does that tell us ? Because they CARE about how people think of them. Are they not rich enough ?
But 1 thing I observed, although they are "monetarily rich", most of them are not really happy

Boss depends loh... My mentor has 10k+ acre of plantation land, tonnes of development land and raw land, conservatively value at RM 5k per acre is already 50mil, have not included in his business net worth, building net worth and cash in hand).
He drive a fckin lousy 1st generation land cruiser when he goes to work. He has driver who fetches only his high net worth business partner and friend not himself.
He still lives in his old bungalow house.
And he still eats mee kampua at kopitiam with me. He only eats at 5 class restaurant/hotel for business purposes.
So yes, he do not care what people think about him. General public recognize his company logo more than his face. And he is happy as far as i'm concern.
But I think most of his kind are as what you says lah... They do mind what people say about them due to Face. So my mentor kind is endangered kind.