QUOTE(unequalteck @ Apr 12 2013, 04:30 PM)
U are not alone man. I don't know about the others but myself is having the same thought as u during that age. All of us here love computer building include u and me. But now I did what my dad wants, as a civil engineer which is totally nothing related to computer. I still can have fun playing with my hobby during free time. Maybe I don't have the dream as big as u but this is reality that u need to accept. Elders experienced a lot of thing in their life, they just want to secure ur future life will be better. At least u finish ur study and prove them, then only u tell them about ur dream with a proper planning. I don't think ur family is very traditional minded person since they still willing to let u play with ur hobby.
Yea I know it is a hobby.
I always know that.
But my father specifically is just traditional and always think that using computers will destroy your career.
QUOTE(irienaoki @ Apr 12 2013, 04:39 PM)
be Good in everything then people will stop complaining.
ur main priority now is studying.
Thanks.
QUOTE(infernoaswen @ Apr 12 2013, 04:58 PM)
Indeed, you need to focus more on your studies to make your parents happy. I was once in your similar shoes, but when I was young I study to bring good results to make my parents happy. Hobby is hobby, I can spend whole day fixing parts, modding this & that but I have other priorities in life too...speaking of that I still have an assignment that is due on monday
So yeah, if you excel well in your studies...your dad probably wont mind what you do during your spare time. In the end of the day all your parents what is to see you success in your life. You can mod all day if you want but somebody still need to pay the bills and for sure it wont be your dad forever...
Yeah, I know how it's been.
And to tell you the truth, my father never pay a dime into my projects.
Everything computer part that I bought is by saving my own money or by my aunt paying.
I love my aunt and mom more than anyone and especially not as much as him.
QUOTE(devilish_yin @ Apr 12 2013, 04:58 PM)
At 16 u should be studying
I'm 22 ...it took me 3 year to get myself a computer with my own money....ur father is not wrong ... just building computer for hobby wont get you anywhere plus it's HIS money ...u need education first ... for example see iren in uni he mod slowly then after he graduated then he can mod like there's no tomorrow liao now he own a company pulak...
Me? I'm a proud manufacturing student who can fabricate my own stuff for my own pleasure ... pursuing my degree now ...
The contribution to my project is around 5% total because most of it is paid by my aunt.
So yea, the only contribution to this project is he pay for my food and eletricity and school bill.
not saying, I don't appreciate it but I'm just stating that he doesn't believe in one bit that this hobby is actually a hobby.
He thinks that computer is like a destroyer of man kind!!
Because you know, typical chinese parent is like read sin chiew and china press, see all the news.
All the news saying that teenagers are crazy with computer game and they are like sleeping and eating infront of computer and staying in CC all day.
So yea, I can partially blame the news

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