now imagine someone crashed onto ur wife

and you saw the whole accident with your bare eyes

and yet you are helpless, nothing you can do as it is too fast

she is gasping to breath and begin to fade away

and your wife die on ur arm

seeing that unker is old, now imagine all the memories, up and down they had together

worst, this kind of case they will backup the driver - hit red light, drive in wrong lane etc

This video most suitable to describe the situation.
WARNING! Graphic scene!

i dont dare to click 
summary pls

Video description: He refused to leave the car for hospital and tried to save his wife by giving her CPR. Sadly his wife didn't survive.