RM3k to mother-in-law seem really a blood sucker just bcos she owned loan shark...

for mine, at the moments we paying to my mother-in-law RM850 per month for 24X7 except saturday and sunday and excluded pamper and milk expenses... but sometimes my mother-in-law will cook some porridge and other food to my kids and sometimes prepare our meal for lunch and dinner by mother-in-law when saturday and sunday...

anyway, do your mother-in-law have other children? she may ask her children to pay some of her debt and reduce your burden to pay her debt only, a family should help each others no matter how...