YOU should get off the internet.

What is your damned problem ? Basically, you are a typical example of
the classic proverb :

"EMPTY VESSELS MAKE THE MOST NOISE".

iF you have nothing to contribute to him, other than worthless, irritating and
annoying rantings, and you think he is a fraud, why don't you just avoid him
and shut the damned hell up, rather make such useless, ill-informed, derogatory
and pathetic remarks - essentially, NONSENSE ?

If you think he is a scammer, then don't give anything to him - SIMPLE, isn't it ?

Obviously you are young and not particularly intelligent, let alone intuitive.


Did it ever occur to you that his case might be genuine, and that YOU YOURSELF
might end up in his situation one day - then how would you feel if you tried seeking
help in this charity forum or other ones, and get this kind of pathetic reception like
the one you are dishing forward to him now ?


Like they say, what goes around, comes around.





This post has been edited by Tham: Nov 10 2012, 09:13 AM

"The Befienders" , in PJ rather, are just a volunteer phone and, when necessary,
face-to-face counselling service.

They are not a charity organization.

They are only there to lend their ears, offer verbal advice - and even then
from a distance. It is apparent they have been trained to counsel that way,
and not become involved personally in the caller's situation.

They are not psychologists or psychiatrists - all are laymen volunteers,
including school leavers, though one or two are GPs who offer their spare
time there. Even any one of you can volunteer there.

For example, if you ask them on their views on a particular problem, some will
answer "It's not what we think that is important, but what you yourself feel about it."

Frankly, in my opinion, that kind of response is folly - it makes the problem come
back to square one, and places the caller in a further dilemma.







This post has been edited by Tham: Nov 10 2012, 09:17 AM