hey girls,

can you advice me how to avoid being pregnant after unsafe sex, say 3 weeks ago? i really need your advice.

really regret having unsafe sex, i guess i have to learn the hard way.

abit worried now since i have late period.

i think morning after pill wont work now right?

thanks so much!

take acidic food perhaps? pineapple raw juice may do the trick

What is your partner saying about this ?

as i know that pill need to consume it within 72golden hours

I think better u get the pregnancy test.

Hope is negative.

Go find a doctor.

And a good one too.

I'm not condoning what you are doing, nor guiding you what to do. Merely advising.

1st trimester still relatively safe....

Best is, try out a few pregnancy tests, do it in the morning after wake up for more accurate results.

From there u know what to do.

Morning after pills (ECP) is only good up to 3 days. Some say 5 days but instructions will put 3 days, to be safe.

Do a pregnancy test to find out if you are really pregnant or not. You can't be sure until you do a test. Late period sometimes may just mean you are stressed up. Also take note of early pregnancy symptoms - morning sickness, growing breasts, etc. These symptoms can start as early as 2-3 weeks after intercourse.

Google up "Women on Web" if you really need to. If you're pregnant, it's still very early in the pregnancy and there are a few choices. PM me if you want to ask anything or just want someone to listen.





p.s. I'm not here to start a pro-choice/pro-life debate.

did you told your mum about it?

i always heard the saying of eating lots of pineapple to prevent pregnancy

why u do during ur fertile period??

oh well good luck and use dom dom next time if there is a next time.

hey girls - thanks for all ur comment.

yes i know it is my mistake and for sure i learn it the hard way now.

will get pregnancy test now, if really pregnant want cant i do to avoid that if less then a month?

thank you again

postinor 2 ...take it before 72hours after sex...but it will mess up your period cycle...period will come later sometimes...

i think the best solution is to find doctor for advice.
Or you should try papaya.

Old folks remedy

1) Pineapple - eat alot or drink a lot of the juice

2) drink a lot of 'leong char' (cooling tea)

Erm... sorry to deviate from topic but have you ever considered the risks of STDs too rather than just pregnancy? Just to make sure you've got everything covered in case your partner is someone new.

hi thanks for ur concern, yes i have checked and i have been with my bf for 2 yrs.

Late menstrual can be caused by hormone imbalance or stress. Not necessary caused by pregnancy.

Although unsafe sex is frequently not recommended, to conceive by having sex only once is really lucky. should be blessed for that.

If only people are more aware of other methods of contraceptives, the reproduction system, hormones, their own body changes and the options that are available... there's always a way.

I myself hate using condoms.

I blame the parents for not properly providing sexual education to their children.

why hate condom while it could help to prevent...

Please dnt kill the baby...its ur own child if u pregnant...make sure that guy share the responsible unless one night stand...i think most of men can control oe shoot at outside..unless thats was his first time

buang je rahim tu.... senang

It's not the only contraceptive method. So why should I love it when I don't like using it?

Please enlighten me on the contraceptive alternatives besides the pill that makes me 'fat' (I do get 'fat' from hormone pills), IUD that they stuff inside me, the condom that I hate and the pancut luar that he might miss. Also, the calculation of doing only on the non fertile week is not workable as we are on it almost everyday

after 3 weeks or after one week is too late to talk about avoid pregnancy, usually avoiding pregnancy shud be done b4 having intercourse.

birth control pill is useful within 3 days after an intercourse, the faster it is, the higher rate for it to success. So it is out in ur case.

As far as i know, avoiding pregnancy is too late for now, can only see if u are pregnant or not.
Unless u wan to try pineapple juice or liang cha but those are not scientific proven to be useful (correct me if im wrong)

Another thing is, just incase, i mean just in case,
u are pregnant, be a responsible person, hope u partner and u will be responsible for wat both of u had done and dun just eliminate the little life,
killing it and thinking that every problem will be solved will be useful for awhile but it going to be a regretful thing until forever as long as ur soul is concious, and bearing it will be painful for awhile but it can be a good thing as long as both person willing to commit together

You've already listed out most of the common contraceptive methods. There's also spermicide, diaphragms, hormonal implants and more.. here: http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...post&p=41447842
But most of the contraceptive methods are hormone base, so if you get fat from the hormones, then too bad I guess, since most women don't really have much side effects from BCP. Try other brands of BCP perhaps?

I've not tried IUD since I'm contented with the withdrawal method. If you have done IUD, how is it? I thought we don't even have to bother about it for several years and don't really feel much from it, other than some slight menstrual cycle disturbance. Would like to hear some experiences from it.

Having sex comes with responsibilities. Choose the contraceptive method that we are comfortable with, each of them have its good and bad. For more permanent measures, we can go with ligation/vasectomy or we can always stay-away-from-sex-forever.

I have not tried IUD. Does not want them to chuck that in me.

I have not tried spermicide. But I guess even if I use it, withdrawal is still primary. We have been practicing withdrawal from the beginning, but sometimes the aftermath can be messy.

And I am sure my partner and I will not want any scissors near our parts. Snip Snip. Hehe.

IUDs are not "chucked" into your body.

spermicide is not very effective. most spermicides have actually been discontinued because of its ineffectiveness and tendency to cause itchiness.

the withdrawal method on its own is also ineffective.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Sep 23 2012, 10:26 AM

vasectomy for men
Tubal ligation for women..
so piap2 can pancut dalam no worry for pregnant... if you willing to forego getting children after married

Nothing u can do now except pray... Do UPT once u missed ur period nd see how it goes... If u need any advise do PM.

now i know most girl dont like rubber....

guy also same .. lol ... the feel just too big of a different .

no way... if you are are so lucky... you can either keep it or abort it

I prefer rubber den feeling super nervous, scared, and etc of being pregnant.... afterall, the baby is the innocent one.....

and schools too.

sorry for out of topic...
wondering how to get pregnant??

its easy actually...ask your bf to spray inside without condom and u will have 50% chances of getting pregnant

Ask yr GF to go pharmacy buy "Morning After Pill" aka Postinor 2. Consume within 48 hours. It should be fine.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+get+pregnant

First step, get a male human being to have sex with a you (assuming you are a female human being).

It's been 3 weeks, Postinor won't do crap if you had already ovulated.

First you need to get a pregnancy test kit.

If positive, you need to get this pill: RU486

Fixed.

No worries,since 3 weeks already,do u feel any physical changes or mood changes? lol.

Anyhow.. usually there is 24 hours emergency pill or something,but it's just once or something to be effective.. if always use,the effectiveness decreases.

Did many time unprotected though..probably 6 months+ already. Nothing.. cuz we hate condoms =.=. Reduced feeling,but what to do it prevents pregnancy ..haha

Dear Shakira,

After going through your previous post, I have reason to believe that you MAYBE just a fking troll who get his kicks by pretending to be a girl online.

Here are some of your topics that made me doubt your gender

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=459833&hl=

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=462951&hl=

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=1329599&hl=

I hardly see girls posting about this kind of topics here in lowyat regarding this sort of interest/subject.


Perhaps this topic you posted MAY prove me right

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=1080265&hl=






This post has been edited by lopo90: Oct 1 2012, 01:48 AM

i tot TS is a man ?

Wah... I thought TS is girl.... If a boy then kinda of irresponsible already...

HOHO BANHAMMER COMING DOWN

Maybe it's for her daugther... =.="

take pill la ?

BEST way is NOT to do it at first place .

i wonder the latest alvin n vivian sex video tape online huha got use protection or not ah

the way ts replied also..its kinda "kasar" unlike girls reply..

its already mentioned here ma

unsafe sex a week before period or a week after period is okayyyy...
doctor told me geh

A week after period isn't exactly okay.
Say your period last 5 days, a week after the 5th day means day 12. Fertile period usually starts from day 12-14.

So best bet is still before period and after fertile period. If menstrual cycle not stable and you don't know when you are ovulating, then just wear condom each time.

Sperm supposedly can live up to a week in a woman's womb. Like munkeyflo said it's probably safest before, or during period or after fertile period.

Wanna go commando always, best take contraceptives...

It seems science say sperm lifespan in the womb is 3 days. The egg lifespan is only 1 day.