From a mathematical standpoint, the traits you identify are as such:

Tall
Fair
Big-Sized
Articulate
Good command of English

None of these are unconventional traits - most girls are looking for this too

All these traits do not only narrow down the market segment in which you can look, but they are mostly desirable traits too - a guy having such traits will attract other girls as well. Owing to this, you will have a tougher time finding someone with such traits who is not taken, compared to if you chose other criteria which are less in the line of the general preference of society. E.g. you like tanned guys. Or you like guys who love to eat. Or you like guys who like anime.

This post has been edited by sparda: Sep 11 2012, 01:44 PM

well you said you preferred tall n fair. most girls i know like these two things too. but of cos im nt judging as we all hv our preferences.

coming back to de topic, i strongly suggest u look around in the older market e.g. late twenties to thirties. from my observation alot of older guys are more intellectual and less shallow (less picky about weight too). so u might consider trying to get into occasions with more older people around, such as retirement homes lololol. seriously tho u can go for stuff like lions club or toastmasters
clubbing probably isnt a high % shot