u really long winded ... my eyes too tired to read all
there;s no such thing as Mr. Right
there is something known as "To Blend To Be What is Needed at Right Time" which applies to both

and from all the requirement i read ... (which i didnt read finish)
i suggest that you look for someone handsome and attracts u physically ... IF you able to offer physical attraction as well

commerical gym is a good place for u to hangout