QUOTE(LightningFist @ Aug 7 2012, 07:53 PM)
Go8 is quite wide. Compared to the specificity of the 2 in SG (but it is SG, so we understand). As a resident of Australia it is different for you (maybe you don't have to pay as much fees as international students, and can delay payments or enjoy discounts or borrow funds or whatever), but personally I would probably only ever consider Melbourne University and ANU (then *maybe* the Sydney schools), and NUS (probably not NTU) amongst your choices.
But I totally understand what you're saying. And it couldn't be more obvious that you would enjoy SG a lot more. Sounds like the part of Australia you lived in has some qualities that almost all Malaysians would sorely despise... food outlets close early, maybe quality of food not up to par (considering Australia's first world status, and the cost of living in major cities).
Most people are too pampered and therefore (in my experience) can hardly take the cold (which is not that cold, it's not Russia or Alaska or Canada). They also tend to exaggerate (negative temperatures aren't as common as people claim). This is not a shot at you, just an observation that most people (sometimes irrationally) feel it is too cold. It's hardly your fault that you prefer the hot/warm weather.
Those that think the weather might be nice and have never been, I can empathise. Malaysia is (too) hot almost everywhere (except Genting, Cameron, the mountains in the East maybe) all year and for people who don't get a chance to live in a cold place, they fantasise about not perspiring even while having a shower, being able to dress well without melting. Although they should enjoy cold showers while they can.
Weren't you going to study a course that was uber-competitive? Apply first and see what you get.
Yes it's different, I get to enjoy significantly cheaper tuition fees as a local.

I'm actually living in a suburb north of Sydney. Restaurants in this area do not close on 5PM. The ones I've been to actually close quite late, about 9PM I think. The food here is, surprisingly, quite good, although it is very expensive when compared to Malaysian food. Eating out may slowly become a luxury here.
Negative temperatures? I don't think Australia has negative temperatures, does it? The lowest I've seen here is just a little under 10 degrees. Many of my friends think Australia has snow too, which isn't true.
But then again, maybe I just don't have any friends here. Life had to drag me more than 4000 miles away from my friends to make me realize how important friends are.
Last year, I was indeed aiming for uber-competitive medicine. But now I guess I'm gonna go for business studies or whatever floats my boat, although I did take the 2012 UMAT exam. Coming from a family of doctors, I don't see how being a doctor aligns with my interests. And the doctors in my family proved that.
However, if I were to be offered a place in medicine, I guess there's no harm trying for at least one semester and see if it suits me.
Oh, and I also want you to know how nice it is to have someone finally understands my situation. I feel like nobody knows what I'm talking about when I tell my friends my "story" in Australia, although it is forgivable since none of them really came to Australia in the first place and all of them seem to think Australia is "the best".
QUOTE(limeuu @ Aug 7 2012, 08:08 PM)
it's just winter blues...it's always a bummer to move to a new place in winter....
come spring, it will fell better....
as for activities, it's a different set of things people do....you are just withdrawing from mamak stalls....

......it's only a month, you will find new things to do, and they will just ba as much fun...
the lowest point in homesickness is the 2nd month.....

I really hope that spring will be better. I've never been happy for even once since I migrated (forcefully) here. Life is trying to shove some of its lessons down my throat and believe me, it is extremely hard and excruciating to swallow it. Mere words cannot express the difficulty of my current situation, I'm afraid. I just hope no human has to go through what I'm going through.
Like I mention to LightningFist just now, I guess it's difficult because I don't have any friends here. Maybe I would live to love Australia 6 months later when university starts and I start to find new friends. But until then, the following 6 months will be the most arduous journey I'll have to walk in my life.
I have friends that say my situation is not that bad since I am here with my family. Oh they are so wrong I do not even know how and where to start correcting them. I want them to understand and feel what I'm feeling and going through, but then they're my friends and I wouldn't want any human to actually go through all this.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure we're way off topic now. But it feels so much better to rant about it and have someone understand me. For that, I thank both of you seniors, LightningFist and limeuu.