yup like bro fulat said , dont stress yourself with all these. got a car and start rolling from there. for house and wedding, you are 23, take it easy first. established ur foothold on your career first. after 2yrs then you can start preparing wedding.
this is what i do. im taking my sweet time. proposed to my gf 080811, ROM 21022012 and house readdy end of 2013 and wedding photo session JUne July 2013 and Chinese wedding somewhere in 2014.
u mentioned you want to spent time together , spent it now. after your wedding / ROM , u will be pressured to start "production". trust me . i kena already and whoever start that " production" topic, all kena fucuk by me till the extend i fucuk when my grandma raised this topic when she was admitted to hospital, right in the ward!! that time u mmg no time for travel etc.
now got the car edi, go travel laaaa.. drive 12 hours - Ipoh - KL - Gambang - KTN - Cherating - Terengganu - Redang( car park at jetty) - Terengganu - KL - IPOH. mwahahahahah
dont rush everything in the same time UNLESS U R RICH la. seriously.
breakdown :
1. house cheapest in ipoh goes around 200k ( 180k for 18 x 60 Botani if im not mistaken)
assuming you buy car first and your loan go through, ur house loan might not go through cz u jsut start work.
2. renovation ( basic + furniture ( basic) : set aside another 40k
3. wedding : sigh chinese wedding can kills la wei! kns! set aside another 80k
you do the calculation how much u will need to bump out if u want to settle all soon.
Mine is under Mulia Pesona

Car now awaits collection in this few days. wmwahhahhaahaha
just realized my NCD is... 55%!!!
oi wilson... here is car forum and why suddenly talk about how u plan your marriage la...