Oh c`mon, don't be such a close minded bigot.

The most important thing in a relationship is trust and commitment. You might think that open relationships do not value commitment, but you would be wrong. Open relationships requires a magnitude level of trust and commitment above regular relationships. To be able to trust your partner to keep you as the priority and you yourself committing to your partner despite the indulgent temptations requires a different sort of character. Its not for everyone, but you shouldn't condemn it simply because you don't have that capacity.

To put it in another way, some people consider going out to a cinema with the opposite sex as a date, and hence "cheating". You may think its silly, but that's the perception of some groups. Open relationships are the same thing, the line is just drawn much higher.

Remember, infidelity means the person is cheating by not letting the person know. Its not cheating if the person knows of it, and condones it. There is no betrayal of trust.


If I marry the person? Yes, that is what I would expect. If this is how you think, why bother getting married? Just go f`ck around and have several illegitimate children. Marriage is about family, and the glue that holds a family together is love. Without love, the family unit will break. Love is not a set of requirements you put down on paper like "caring" for the family. Its not about "WHAT" is done, its about what "DRIVES THE ACTION".

Sadly, I think you've not felt what it is to love and be loved, which is the only reason you can spout such rubbish.

Cause people think like you.

I don't think you've really felt what love is.