if ur attitude, action, everything all heavily influenced by these japanese anime and shows... no gals will ever date u, except those same species otaku gal like u...

so, TS... u most likely is gona be a forever-loner.
cant blame u oso, many gals always think collect these stuffs are childish, not mature...
TS, u shud ask the her... define what is mature!
coz, in this situation, gals will say u are not mature, u're childish! say u nvr grow up...
u better forget your whatever future with this gal.

Well I see that I had a few going on a defensive with my views. I did not put down any anime lovers. My context of discussion is with regards to someone who is on the extreme side. I'm not saying being otaku is bad, I just saying why certain people find a real otaku as a turnoff.

But of course, I do realize here the Generation Y out numbers Generation X'ers ...so what am I thinking? You guys love your anime and collectibles. But you know what ? I know girls that are ambitious to climb up corporate ladders, girls that had to raise siblings while parents earn money, girls raised by strict family and are religious, girls who love adventures like diving, mount climbing, marathons. These are everyday people. What do they think of otaku guys? ... take a guess.

Nobody is saying being otaku is wrong. If you are all talking about smart, modern outgoing women presented with an otaku , ask yourself: turn on/turn off ?
Of course you can always look for a girl who like the same stuff as you do. Then problem solved.

*Sigh* There are female Otaku ok ? I personally know few of them myself even though I still find them unattractive and boring. I repeat this has nothing to do with men and women.

*Sighhhhhhhhh* Just wake up make me sigh so dem much time 
I find Otaku unattractive esp their hobbies and interests, since when did I say every girls think the same way with me or did I say I represent every girls to answer TS ?

It's not my fault for finding Otaku unattractive, if you feel offended because you happens to be one of them, it's not my fault either.
It's just personal preferences, there are guys I know who actually prefer materialistic girls, even though I strongly disagree them to find one but still I wish them the best.

Jew gonna brainwash me with your anime power ?   

This is where I put my villain cloak on. There is a very fine line between self motivation and making excuses for yourself.

Let me be the a$$hole for saying this. I don't get anything for saying this, in fact i might just get more hate but just food for thought.

People who don't feel they are good enough always whine. Then others will come and say things like 'be yourself', 'your friends are the problem, not you', 'the right person will accept you for the real you'. Great right ? The problem is with other who don't see the real you. It's not your problem. Just continue being the imbalanced you.

We must always improve. There is always a better version of you if you are willing to strive for it. If you see a girl you like, then be the better guy that is worthy of her love. Don't give lazy excuses like she will come around and accept me for who i am. Positive thinkers think of it as improvements. Negative thinkers think of it as changing to impress others.

You want to stay who you are fine, but if she or people never come around to accept you, don't be bitter and say they look down on you. Your happiness is your own responsibility, other people are just busy looking after theirs.

How is it a judgement bcuz their interest don't attract me as I think it's wasting money ? Diff taste in food or diff interest, it still a choice right ? U have urs, I have mine.

Q: Girls, would u date an otaku?, No, not talkin abt Hentai...
A: Yes, why not?