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diaBoliQu3
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 May 23 2012, 10:50 PM
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The best thing is you tell her when she's calm and make sure you guys didn't fight. And you can't diagnosed a person. So, you should bring her to see psychiatrist for inspection. Mental illness doesn't mean crazy but you should bring her to seek treatment. Be matured and discussed everything nicely. What I afraid is mental status is a sensitive issue. Telling her the truth might worsen her because she can get depress thinking that you will leave her because she was sick. Find a good time and environment. Maybe after take walk at beach and while you both happy. Psychiatric is a complicated subject. It might be a bipolar disorder too...
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diaBoliQu3
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May 24 2012, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ May 24 2012, 04:15 PM) Consulting psychologist Paul Jambunathan once advised to take a video recorder to record such incidents. Record the incident and let her view it. Then both of you will understand the seriousness of this thing. You and your gf should consult an expert on this. I just going to suggest this. However for TS, is your girl 2nd personality disturbing your relationship? How is the 2nd her if compare to the true her? If you think it's disturbing you, then you can consult psychiatrist. Maybe she will go for observation, and might given drugs to control the brain activity. Or maybe it's like a childish behavior. Psychiatric is a world where there is nothing true or false. I suggest, tackle her main problem. Ask about here stress, pamper her, give more attention and observe her. If still no changes, then it must have been psychological problem. And monitor when will the 2nd personality come out? During stress only, happy or even during sleep. Most of the case I seen is when the patient realize they are ill, they won't hesitate to seek treatment, but WITH SUPPORT. Without support, it's seem you just want to fix her for your own good, or she's not the same person to you like before. |
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diaBoliQu3
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May 25 2012, 09:12 PM
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QUOTE(sanzo12 @ May 25 2012, 02:27 AM) Not really affecting our relationship, I just got shock at the first place (unexpected). The 2nd of her looks no different to others, but she will only shows herself when with me. It doesn't happen all the time, only when she's in stress + sleep. I think I would just observe her at the moment, because she told me that the 2nd personality has existed for 9 years. 9 years? I guess it's really a mental illness. No offense dude but mental illness I meant is not that crazy type. You can observed her and advice her. And girl do need more attention. It would not be a problem unless she have a suicide attention or try to harm you. But for the best of you and her, seek for psychiatrist consultation for confirmation. She's a lucky girl to have you by her side. Support her kay. Not all guy like you... I also have same situation with you, but not it's not that frequent. Only on super stress situation. They really need us dude... Be a man, and stand for them Therapeutic medication can't be compare to therapeutic support form a guy like us... |
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diaBoliQu3
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May 27 2012, 04:01 AM
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QUOTE(trencher10 @ May 26 2012, 07:17 PM) First of all, don't use the Internet for learning lay psychiatry. Even trained psychiatrists have difficulty in teasing out personality disorders (takes a long, long time of interviews and observations ... and results in thick manila files). As anything, consult a psychiatrist, and consider it this way, going to a psychiatrist is not to help only the patient, BUT EVERYONE, because in psychiatry; family, friends and every human dynamic is important to management. Haha... That's why most of the psychiatrist also behaving like their patient due to no true or false in psy and a bunch of old file to read  |
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