U're more likely her sex toy bro... Well i understand that u're not those guy who into sex addiction one... Well seriously better find a way to leave or avoid her... If not u going to have problem in future =)

This post has been edited by oOoproz: May 24 2012, 05:22 AM

words of wisdom..

I felt that she deserve someone better than me. Aiks, dun geh geh.. u feel her not suit u only kua.. u feel bored with her.. u still young and want to find better looking girl rite? just tell her directly laa.. u told her I felt that she deserve someone better than me. , u ikat her here.... u want to completely broke with her.. told her u dun like her anymore u fat ass... sure she will not come find u again. why? can't say that? u duwan bcome bad ppl rite? but u wan to see her begging u and go to the level offering sex everyweek to just see u? b a man la TS.. shame on u.. u go dai la

intro her into another guy lar, she said prefer u cos havent meet one mah, u not even tried ur best! tuh! and btw stop fubu with her lar, u alredy knew its like a sex poison why going on with it

She's a gem in mamakspecial.

Karma strikes twice harder! good luck kiddo!

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Added on June 1, 2012, 2:42 amWELL SAID!

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I guess if you want to move on, cut off all contact. That is kindness, rather than hinging on to benefits while she think there's hope for more.

it's difficult sometimes when people see only what's in front of them and dont see the future implications it may have.

Poor her parents.

introduce to me

she is using sex to get you to love her again.. i u can keep ur heart cold enuf then well think about it as free sex. i not dun even try.. skali see she very evil she punture ur condom in hope that she'll get preggers then mati u lolx

please share contact bro

Leave her alone. She will eventually move on. You might enjoy the pleasure of free service but she provides with feelings. I hope:

When she forgive and forget, you will remember and regret =]

And learn to not taking someone for granted.

the wise has spoken:
at first glance, I also think that she can't bear the fact that you're leaving and try whatever ways she can to retain u~

I believe that u honor love. Sex is more than just pleasure when u've reached a certain age~ that u will see~ if it doesn't disturb u, send her messages or calls once in a while to help her out

doesn't matter,
had sex

What I wanna say has already be said by others here:

1) Truly sad to see her descend to such a level.

2) Break up because no more 'spark'? .

Firstly, I don't know the whole story (because you didn't really talk all the small details, so don't flame me), but here's my opinion:


Where the heck did men go?!

In the past when people had a falling out or had a bored-spur in their relationship, they held on and didn't let up --they stayed put and tried! Summore yours is a 3 years relationship!

I don't know about you, TS, but 3 years is a hell long of time with a girl you love(d)... and now to see that you want to break up with her because no 'spark' is really pathetic. It's already been so long, ever thought of being responsible about having such commitment? I don't care if you're 20 --if you were so committed, keep trying!

I truly hate people who bullcrap and bullshit about them being able to stay committed, but then break after years and months just cause no more 'spark'. You're not the first.

There are always times when one is bored with something they have all the time --they take it for granted. But that doesn't mean it's the end, as in you will not have it anymore because no 'spark' or 'bored liao'.

I know, maybe you might say she's being very sticky and clingy, but it's been THREE YEARS --you guys must've went through a lot and now she's offering you sex just to see her love ONCE A WEEK.

THINK ABOUT IT.

Also, you starting this clearly shows you're VERY tempted with the thought of having her whenever you want --if you truly mean it when you say you don't wanna hurt her, then either try getting with her again, doing sweet stuff --NOT SEX---or just ignore her to prevent her from DYING INSIDE.

cool story la ts, real men dont even ask this sort of questions

That girl loves you very much. If a girl doesn't love you, she wouldn't do such a thing. I cannot say she is a slut. She is not giving her body to other guys or having sex with guys for the sake of money. Well, just visit her once a week as she wants. Just make it clear to her there is no chance of reconciliation. She will slowly be able to let it go. But DON'T have sex with her. Please respect her. Her body now doesn't belongs to you anymore. You don't deserve it. If you do it, it is out of pure lust. It is not fair to her.

from gf bcome sex partner pula? i think u better stop contact her, cos very sure tat she still love you, so if you continue to be like tat, more problem will come out

actually this seems quite common nowadays where ex bfs or gfs become fubus and to those that do not know what fubu means it means f**k buddies.
But sometimes being fubus might stop you from going out with other people etc, some people kid themselves that there are no strings attached but in most cases it can be seen that either one of the partners still have feelings involved in it and are contented to be fubus in the hope of getting something more out of it in the future. This happens to both male and female as females do have sex drives too.
What I can say is this, if u want to end it with her, just stop prolonging her agony and don't give her that ray of hope that you guys can move out of the fubu stage, she deserves more than that. It will help both of you move on and find better people out there

5 stages of grief. She is at the Bargaining stage, just wait for her to get to Acceptance and she will be ready for a new guy.