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SUSDeadlocks
post May 2 2012, 02:02 AM

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QUOTE(BlurSotong @ May 1 2012, 08:38 PM)
Feminist? Sexist? Fyi: Girl's Club.

Here's for girls to share and feel comfortable. If your comments makes girls uncomfortable, ta da~.
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I've decided to send you a PM about this because I didn't want to tell people that I witnessed that certain posts have been deleted.

Go check your inbox.

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: May 2 2012, 02:03 AM
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post May 2 2012, 02:15 AM

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QUOTE(NaShRiCk @ May 2 2012, 02:13 AM)
Standard la kalau society double standard..
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Not only that. I witnessed that an individual's posts being deleted even though it was civil.
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post May 2 2012, 02:20 AM

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Please guys. Stop being perverts here.

I only wanted to know why the replies from another forummer to BlurSotong which I witnessed earlier was deleted.

3) Any person who posts sexist or degrading posts will be suspended for 7 days without warning.

I believed that she deleted his posts because he has revealed that she was breaking the specific rule above, which is part of the rules and regulations for the Girl's Club.

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: May 2 2012, 02:23 AM
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post May 2 2012, 07:29 PM

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my gf till now never admit she masturbate..

each time she said 'no never' then i will show middle finger to her..

then she smiled..u know the answer
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post May 2 2012, 09:10 PM

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QUOTE(Deadlocks @ May 2 2012, 02:20 AM)
Please guys. Stop being perverts here.

I only wanted to know why the replies from another forummer to BlurSotong which I witnessed earlier was deleted.

3) Any person who posts sexist or degrading posts will be suspended for 7 days without warning.

I believed that she deleted his posts because he has revealed that she was breaking the specific rule above, which is part of the rules and regulations for the Girl's Club.
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Believe all you want. Your believes is not justification for answer.

Courtesy to Donglemaru. I'll reply to his pm.
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post May 3 2012, 12:37 AM

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Haaaiz...this is a girls thread in the first place, it was meant for girls/women to discuss with each other in a comfortable environment without unnecessary or unwanted intrusion by men.

All the guys here trying to defend their rights to post whatever they want is like asking why men can't enter the ladies coach in ktm. It was meant for women and women only but they still want to kecoh and buat kacau shakehead.gif

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post May 3 2012, 01:31 AM

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QUOTE(SereneAshley @ May 3 2012, 12:37 AM)
Haaaiz...this is a girls thread in the first place, it was meant for girls/women to discuss with each other in a comfortable environment without unnecessary or unwanted intrusion by men.

All the guys here trying to defend their rights to post whatever they want is like asking why men can't enter the ladies coach in ktm. It was meant for women and women only but they still want to kecoh and buat kacau  shakehead.gif
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I agree! we have a right to be feminist in the Girls Club! if we wanted feedback from guys, we wouldn't have posted our topic in the Girls Club in the first place.
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post May 3 2012, 01:25 PM

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There are many guys out there who believes that if a girl is interested in sex, means they are a slut. There's nothing we can do about it but to just avoid speaking about sex with these guys.

Our society still believes that sex is taboo hence why lots of parents actually make up all sorts of stories to frighten their kids and make sure they do not bring up or take part in any sexual activities. It is also uncommon for girl talk to have any topic that discusses about sex. Due to society pressure, we girls are expected to be pure, innocent, anti-sex non-perverted beings. And to jaga face, most girls will strongly say that sex is disgusting even if they don't believe so or haven't experience enjoyable sex before.

Having some close friends to discuss about sex is healthy if you ask me. However, not openly admitting it in public. Trust me, if I'd admit something like that on this forum here, there'll be lots of perverted PMs sent to my inbox. doh.gif

Anyhow, I believe almost every girl masturbates. wink.gif
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QUOTE(kobe23 @ Apr 30 2012, 06:10 PM)
I would personally say, masturbating is okay, but sleeping and screwing around or playing with other's feelings is something to be looked into instead.
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Agreed!

Anyway nothing wrong with masturbating ... it's NATURAL feelings .. better than cheating boyfriends by sleeping and fooling aorund!
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post May 3 2012, 08:34 PM

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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ May 3 2012, 01:25 PM)
There are many guys out there who believes that if a girl is interested in sex, means they are a slut. There's nothing we can do about it but to just avoid speaking about sex with these guys.

Our society still believes that sex is taboo hence why lots of parents actually make up all sorts of stories to frighten their kids and make sure they do not bring up or take part in any sexual activities. It is also uncommon for girl talk to have any topic that discusses about sex. Due to society pressure, we girls are expected to be pure, innocent, anti-sex non-perverted beings. And to jaga face, most girls will strongly say that sex is disgusting even if they don't believe so or haven't experience enjoyable sex before.

Having some close friends to discuss about sex is healthy if you ask me. However, not openly admitting it in public. Trust me, if I'd admit something like that on this forum here, there'll be lots of perverted PMs sent to my inbox. doh.gif

Anyhow, I believe almost every girl masturbates. wink.gif
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True, sex is something natural and society has labelled it as dirty. I once read (from a self-help book on sexual revolution) the history why sex was labelled as dirty in the first place. Well, in fact it's nothing dirty at all. If it is dirty, then why is everyone doing it?

The story goes something like this - Back in the olden days, the village heads would always collect women as his wives. And as usual, guys like virgins. The village head would go around spreading rumours that sex is dirty to discourage the virgins from engaging in sexual intercourse with young men in the village. But of course, at the end of the day, the village head would get all those girls.

It was labelled dirty for selfish reasons.

This theory written by the author above seems legit to me.

Anyway, yes, society perceive that if a girl is interested in sex she is deemed to be a slut. The same goes with a man, if a man is interested in sex, he is deemed to be perverted. And isn't it ironic that you just said so above? whistling.gif

And it's by nature that men are wired to be the aggressor when comes to sex or else the procreation process would come to a halt thousands of years ago.

Well, not almost every girl masturbates. There are some who does and some doesn't. It's their personal choice and it also it depends on their hormones.

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post May 3 2012, 09:09 PM

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QUOTE(Neshimaru @ May 3 2012, 03:07 PM)
Agreed!

Anyway nothing wrong with masturbating ... it's NATURAL feelings .. better than cheating boyfriends by sleeping and fooling aorund!
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haha 4 me anyone can MB TFKS...its just the crooked minded society in here that perceives it s dirty n we cant do anything about it laugh.gif doh.gif
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QUOTE(Blofeld @ May 3 2012, 08:34 PM)
Anyway, yes, society perceive that if a girl is interested in sex she is deemed to be a slut. The same goes with a man, if a man is interested in sex, he is deemed to be perverted. And isn't it ironic that you just said so above?  whistling.gif 
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By "perverted messages", I mean messages that are very obviously trying to get laid or something along those lines. I would only label a guy perverted if he does that (and also if he has no shame in asking for sex from a complete stranger who has clearly rejected/ignored him more than once doh.gif). While most of the society will call a guy pervert when he's overly demanding for sex from his partner or has very weird fetishes, I believe these are just individual differences and should be respected.

If a guy PM me regarding some issues/discussion about sex, I don't see anything perverted about it. wink.gif laugh.gif

I have nothing against people, male or female, that are interested in sex, I see it as a natural thing to be curious and interested in sex (or masturbation, as per TS's topic) and it should be encouraged and discussed. smile.gif
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post May 5 2012, 09:24 AM

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I thought it was pretty common, just that girls don't announce it.

Come to think of it, none of the guys in my friend circle announce it too...
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post May 5 2012, 12:03 PM

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I masturbate also...and its nothing wrong....just do what u like as long as it doesnt endanger ur life...
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its just masturbation. whats wrong about it? its your body. your feelings.

u feel good, u do it la. just make sure hygene level is checked. don put anything resembling a cucumber la. must be smart. enjoy safe = enjoy long lasting.

best if got bf arnd help. smile.gif
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post May 5 2012, 06:13 PM

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girl and boy are humans oso...same emotional feeling....
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Geez I start to HATE males in GC. Pardon, you guys just a raff (o`皿′o) nd I believe some of u re under age. Moderator please ban em'!!
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I don't see anything wrong with it, but a lot of people can't take it. So it's better to keep it to yourself or share it with only your close friends.
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Where do u girls usually buy the adult toys, at I Need House shop in KL or thru online?

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