This topic has been bugging me for such a long time now. When guys masturbate, people treat it as normal as breathing. But when a girl masturbates, its like something so new and people act like girls aren't supposed to be masturbating.

Even among friends, when guys tell their friends that they masturbate, they fist bump each other laughing about it. But when girls tell their friends that they masturbate, they would give her the "look". The "look' that says "you're such a dirty slut". Why do people look down on girls who masturbate?

I'm getting sick and tired of this!! I'm proud to say that I masturbate! I'm not ashamed of it! I masturbate and I enjoy it! Are there any other girls out there that are brave enough to admit it?

good, you do I dont condemn abt it

chill sis~

I would personally say, masturbating is okay, but sleeping and screwing around or playing with other's feelings is something to be looked into instead.

i'm totally cool with chicks with masturbating~~

Yeah, it's the society's shitty double standards. Some even had the gall to say "A key that can open all locks is a masterkey, while a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock"

No choice lor, sometimes really have to act and look like good girl in front of friends.

you care so much what other ppl say..just do whatever you like

No matter how much you try not to care about what other people say, it does get to you at some point. No one is strong enough to by life not caring about what others think.

Seriously, no girls here are willing to admit to masturbation but me? =.="

U the man girl! i salute ur bravery!

Willing or not, its their choice to reveal. This is not bout bravery or how open minded and whatnot. Just like exhibitionism. Its a choice.

I, for one, cherish my privacy. Plus, there's a thing called "TMI: too much information". I really don't want to know what others do in their free time, or their conquest.

I'll let the thread be but keep.the.thread.clean.

TS, girls, kindly report when you feel insulted or violated, creeped out, etc. By anyone.

Guys, feel free to share all you like but do not cross the line. This is not for you to decide. Anything.

+1

Girl should enjoy sex the way men enjoy it especially asian girl...

How does satisfying yourself make you a slut? #dafuq

But there's nothing wrong with it. It's your body.

Normal for gals especially malaysian not admitting. Well... Y not when guys can n so r v. I do wit satisfaction.

Hey, that double standard thing works two ways.

If a girl tells people that it's taboo when she tells other people that she masturbates, then how come when if a guy tells girls that he masturbates it's considered that he is a pervert?


This post has been edited by Deadlocks: May 1 2012, 05:02 PM

u r not alone. but you got to understand of your -liberal thinking- as Malaysia; not that matured.

Like swinging couples, you think general Malaysian like it?

so its good to keep quiet n just share with people who not a bird or loudspeaker

Am I right to consider this as another form of double standards?

You're being a TYPICAL feminist, BlurSotong, and you are obviously practising double standards.

This post has been edited by Deadlocks: May 1 2012, 05:03 PM

1. You do realize that by opening this topic you have instantly, gotten the attention of the community of boys and men, hell girls too (no not all) here that will begin to harass your inbox right? (no problem if that's what you wanted)

2. If this topic was opened for your explicit entertainment of trolls it is indubitably good troll bait.

3. Agreed, the moderators comment (while she may be doing her job) does reflect gender bias:

BlurSotong:

TS, girls, kindly report when you feel insulted or violated, creeped out, etc. By anyone.

Guys, feel free to share all you like but do not cross the line. This is not for you to decide. Anything.

(I read a rule somewhere that said sexists comments could result in a 7 day suspension, this applies to moderators as well? Hmnn still very green about all this)

4. A point well noted from the above contributions, we are in a much more conservative part of the world.

5. Not to mention the majority of girls from our culture have been educated to believe that masturbation for women is indeed wrong. (this is just one of the many misconceptions Asian culture adheres to) Therefore no surprise that there is no chorus of women shouting "Yes we masturbate too!" (but really those that discover it and aren't freaked out by what society tells them, continue to do so)

and i forgot where have i read many times.. i think from catholic point of view? not too sure as it was long ago, they said that masturbation can cause you acne; hence stop it. haha!

your friend acting holy gua

30 % of girls old enough Masturbate.
The other 70% lie.

Feminist? Sexist? Fyi: Girl's Club.

Here's for girls to share and feel comfortable. If your comments makes girls uncomfortable, ta da~.