I have an exact encounter like yours.

Sad previous relationship, the girl I loved so much dumped me because I'm not studying medicine. (I know WTF ryt?) Because she insisted she will only marry a doctor. After that I'm really really careful, making sure I don't commit too much in a relationship. Until, I met this girl while having my internship. I entered the company few months earlier than her and so, she's like my junior. Firstly, I have no intention at all towards her. I never even thought of coupling up with her. Just like you, she was great. She was so caring, so understanding till certain level that it's hard to decline the fact that she has feeling towards me. I refused to get involved at first, because, firstly, she's 2 years older than me, and another reason, she's studying abroad and I've never tried LDR before. However, action speaks louder than word. I was really touched and finally, I stepped out of safe/friend zone, and we couple up in the end. For a while. Then it's finally the time for her to leave, for studies. Firstly, I'm the one who are afraid of LDR, and she's the one who keep on comforting me, asked me not to worry. When I gain some confidence, she lost her confidence pula. In the end, we just ended up being friends back and see what happens after 10 months. It hurts me so much.

So right now you are waiting just like me? But 10 months??! Must be painful especially LDR. I feel you man. Very tough time and hard to be this way.

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Yup. Currently still waiting blindly. Not sure what's gonna happened after 10 months. She left for 2 months and honestly, these 2 months feel like years for me. She promised to keep in touch frequently, but eventually, when she got really busy with all her final year projects and assignments, even communication is a problem, summore timezone different.

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How long she will be there? 10 months is too long man. Even myself need to wait for 3 months and I think it is too long already. When the last time both of you having a conversation? We're on the same boat i guess..

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Haha... she will be back on Dec 2012, but I will only be back to my hometown in January 2013. 10 months is indeed long enough, so is the distance. If 10 months, but not that far, I mean in Malaysia, then maybe things will be slightly better. The last time having a proper conversation was 1 month ago I guess. She's really busy and I really don't want to pressure her somemore. She seemed to be stressed enough already from what I saw she posted on FB. Hopefully can pull through the 10 months and the feelings are still there.