she like and felt comfortable around you, she dont want to lose you, she loves you, as a friend.
Am I naive or she's just using me?, I wonder
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 Feb 23 2012, 05:24 PM
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Feb 23 2012, 05:25 PM
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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Feb 23 2012, 05:03 PM) Oh.. how nice to have a fren forever given me morale support, shower me with love, gifts and drive me around.. always be there for me. Sad but true.Best of all.. this is just a fren.. not bf. I still have all the freedom to flirt around.. hahahaha. I don't have to love him.. as long as he love me..untung ya.  Ima thinking to go gender transplant Added on February 23, 2012, 5:26 pm QUOTE(michiec @ Feb 23 2012, 05:18 PM) move on yeah got 1 fish here  so many pretty girls out there  view that as a past. at least you learned something from it.  This post has been edited by WaCKy-Angel: Feb 23 2012, 05:26 PM |
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Feb 23 2012, 05:40 PM
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Sorry about ur case, i think u better ask clearly about what ur friends told u, if she admit, u can straight away throw the word "b****" toward her and move on. For i prefer thing to be clearer before it ended. At least i learn the lesson fully not partially. good luck~
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Feb 23 2012, 05:46 PM
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Added on February 23, 2012, 5:26 pm yeah got 1 fish here [/quote] LOL?  |
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Feb 23 2012, 05:48 PM
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" If you love her and can afford it, why not? " - a forummer here
Added on February 23, 2012, 5:49 pm QUOTE(dodo5566 @ Feb 23 2012, 05:24 PM) she like and felt comfortable around you, she dont want to lose you, she loves you, as a friend. With advices like these, no wonder doormats thrive.This post has been edited by Drian: Feb 23 2012, 05:49 PM |
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Feb 23 2012, 06:06 PM
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QUOTE(kzl @ Feb 23 2012, 05:40 PM) Sorry about ur case, i think u better ask clearly about what ur friends told u, if she admit, u can straight away throw the word "b****" toward her and move on. For i prefer thing to be clearer before it ended. At least i learn the lesson fully not partially. good luck~ why? What wrong did the girl do to TS?nothing. She didn't lead him on. TS wanted to be a doormat, chasing her like a goddess, thinknig one day she might just suddenly fall in love with her. She didnt cheat on him, didnt do anything to TS. TS buy/treat/gifts all by himself, she didnt ask anything from him too. |
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Feb 23 2012, 06:42 PM
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lol, don't just fall in love. you need to be smart too.
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Feb 23 2012, 07:07 PM
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Let this be a lesson to all men.
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Feb 23 2012, 07:25 PM
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you are what I call perfect waste of time. Its time to move on. Just ignore her for good.
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Feb 23 2012, 07:27 PM
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She's a man eater, make you work hard
Make you spend hard Make you want all, all of her love She's a man eater Make you buy cars Make you cut cords Wish you never ever met her at all |
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Feb 23 2012, 07:31 PM
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QUOTE(BelowAverage @ Feb 23 2012, 06:06 PM) why? What wrong did the girl do to TS? To be fair, if she were smarter and more mature, she should have refused all those gifts. But considering how foolish and immature TS has been, he certainly has no right to blame her.nothing. She didn't lead him on. TS wanted to be a doormat, chasing her like a goddess, thinknig one day she might just suddenly fall in love with her. She didnt cheat on him, didnt do anything to TS. TS buy/treat/gifts all by himself, she didnt ask anything from him too. |
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Feb 23 2012, 07:34 PM
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[/YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkvri2N0AFU&feature=channel_video_title[YOUTUBE]
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Feb 23 2012, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(1dollar @ Feb 23 2012, 07:34 PM) My advice This post has been edited by BelowAverage: Feb 23 2012, 08:36 PM |
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Feb 24 2012, 12:01 AM
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Hey TS, love is blind.. So don't get blinded by love.. Wake up!!!
I empathy you, and I may feel as what you felt. Getting emo every night? Try to hangout with more friends, and take more peek on pretty girls feeling will go off after some period of time.. Good luck  |
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Feb 24 2012, 12:12 AM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Feb 23 2012, 03:34 PM) Can you imagine how disappointed I am that I got to know this from a friend who is not even a close buddy?and to be fooled and deceived for 4 years?the time i spent?the money i spent?the effort?my friends calls u a gold digger, a b*tch. I can't and don't want to believe that what they say were true. I prefer to think that I am naive and u were not using me. Added response @ 23.02.2012,11.56pm:- I think i owe it to answer some of your questions,some of the gifts are willingly given and some were requested.I don't keep tab on the items bought but I do remember some major stuffs like a Miu Miu bag,Iphones(yes,s is for plural) and a Oscar de la Renta evening dress(boy,the most traumatizing shopping experience in NY). And to be honest,I am no rich kid,am not endowed with good looks,i weight tonnes in kg and apparently my IQ is lower than a police dog. else u are buying urself a doormat tag |
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Feb 24 2012, 12:54 PM
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friend zone.... just friend zone.
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Feb 24 2012, 02:25 PM
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tough love bro.
for the money n time u spent on her, just treat is as a life lesson school, n move on... |
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Feb 24 2012, 05:20 PM
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i pity u dude. from your story, yes she's using u TOTALLY! Btw, it's not your fault to be in love, your only fault is you love her too much until you let her using you. Dude, many girls out there always fall into bad boys...but you, the specialty you had is your loyalty and you are hopeless romantic! You have to be sharpen a bit before you can be a good don juan demarco...good luck dude!
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Feb 24 2012, 05:49 PM
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can't blame her. cos u are the one who pamper her with all this gifts...and you should create an atmosphere for her and u...drunk her with all the romantic atmosphere and be the man. In addition, i'm been to your situation yo....and feel pity for you. But you already know the end results, just you don't want accept it...move forward dude. You deserve someone better.
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Feb 25 2012, 03:22 AM
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Somewhat reminds me of myself in the old days, but I did not throw any gifts like you. To be honest, i have few cases like these, sacrifice my own time for someone I think that might be worthy but that time I was blinded. When I finally come to my senses, its really impossible to begin with, reality hits u hard bro. Just live on and keep a distant
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