My boyfriend and I have a healthy sex life. However, he wants to take C-ialis because he wants to satisfy me (I prefer longer sessions ) I'm still considering to let him get it since there are possible side effects.

What I want to know is: 1) Will a person get addicted to C-ialis? 2) Is this thing expensive? (Hoping that Guardian or Watson's has this item)

What do you mean by healthy sex life?

if your bf cannot perform then only take pill .....if not take too much no good for health
let him rest first then only second round la...

I mean that my boyfriend and I are in a loving and steady relationship

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This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Oct 13 2011, 05:43 PM

i have asked this question to my uncle, as he is a pharmacist, it is actually a legal drug, which is a prescription based drug that needs doctor's recommendation.

it does not give any side effects, however, need to check whether your bf got allergies towards certain medicines or not.

on the price side, i believe it cost RM30-RM45 per pop...

At most we have only one session in a day...having second round is perhaps suitable during a honeymoon only We have classes/work during weekdays...what my boyfriend wants is to have a longer session...

have longer foreplay...?? can or not??

I have been doing some research on the internet and there are certain side effects (temporary), however I'm not sure if it is correct information.

They sell single pills? I was afraid they only sell in packets...that would have cost a bomb and we only wanted to try it out first

Thanks for your reply!

This post has been edited by ginsy: Oct 13 2011, 05:58 PM

i'm married and i've tried pills (for longer intimate s*x session)..
but the pills was given only when i seek help from a doctor..i went to clinic n the doctor prescribed to me a pill that looks like <removed> but he said it's not <removed>..i think its <removed>..i 4 got how much it costs...

use gambir

seriously, the skills and knowledge in sexual intercourse and foreplay is a must-have for your bf. no need pills to satisfy both sides.

This post has been edited by soundsyst64: Oct 13 2011, 08:26 PM

Wow. No need until so extreme until take pills la. Can just buy toys. or if he wants to give you more pleasure, ask him to do oral stuff

just have to ask... how long is 'longer sessions'?

I wonder, how many minutes are the extra after consuming the pill?

duh..your bf will get better once he used to having sex..i had that problem before,but i try to improve my self every each session..and try to read what u as a partner can do..theres so many material on internet..just try to google it...or he can use condom that have long lasting lub on it.i need house mid vally sell carry that condom..good luck.

Have you tried those condoms that will help? LYN have a few sellers selling the type of condoms for longer lasting sex.
I don't think you'll have to resort to pills for help now.

Besides, how long have you guys been having sex? (Or more specifically, how long has he been having sex?) PE has been known to commonly affect young, sexually inexperience males.

this topic interest me!!!
anyway c*alis or v*agra doesn't makes man go longer in s*x sessions
it just stimulate the blood flow in man private area....
makes him easy to get erection....
but it still doesn't efect how long it will take for a person to ejeculate!!

p/s: so young maa...actually doesn't need any pill laaa

This post has been edited by budakdegilz: Oct 16 2011, 12:51 PM

Foreplay

Sex toys helps too.

Orgasm three(3) times happy enough.

Five(5) max.

This post has been edited by Raikkonen: Oct 16 2011, 01:09 PM

Take "Priligy" instead of <removed> or <removed> if u wish to prolong the ejaculation.
<removed> or <removed> is for ED..

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I believed traditional remedies like Gambir would help in this issue

Thanks for all your replies. Umm...there is something that I have to explain...my bf is unable to get a firm erection without constant stimulation and it does not last if stop touching it...probably only few seconds...this is the same when he watches those dirty movies...that is why we wanted to try pills

IMHO,he need doctor check up or some serious talk about past
in my fair share in expriences,this can be either physically or mentally problem
does he have bad exprience when erection occurs?
your mind can do pretty serious cover up as it expriences bad memories

just sharing thoughts

thanks for you reply

he did see the doctor for check up a few months ago (i managed to persuade him), the doctor said he was fine, the checkup included blood sugar test too. the doctor said he was probably stressed but i don't think that is the problem. there was no bad experience...he has always been like that
i really hope there is a solution to this

Is he healthy and energetic? Diet and exercise must watch also to build stamina.

Plus the stress we can't see by outside look and even he himself dint even know, sometime keeping emotion will caused him fail to get hard.

The "depression" can cause lot of mental/mind damage.

If there's nothing wrong with him physically, it may be a mental health issue.

Try looking for a psychologist to help out with his problem. It's not a normal thing so you two will have to find ways to solve it.

Try not to resort to pills so fast. Some pills have side effects and stuff. And that's the last thing anyone would want, especially when you guys are still so young.

Munkeyflo is right.
Go have a checkup if he is not too shy unless he intend to try out Gambir Sarawak.
Yah... a lot of my friend enjoy using Gambir Sarawak on this purpose.

Could also be that your boytoy has low testosterone levels or even serotonin levels.

Is he obese/fat?

i dont know if we can afford a psychologist yet. but he went for check up already. my bf spends most of the time in office, he is an accountant....so he only works out during the weekends. his height is 175cm and weight 78kg...not really obese.

i may ask him to try gambir...is it available in KL?

78kg for his height is on the high side although not obese. I have to say that weight plays a part in how long a man can last on bed as well. Lesser energy equals just that, lack of stamina to keep it up/aroused. Ask him to go for a fitness test and they will be able to say if he is fit or not, based on heartbeat rate and etc.

Always for for natural solutions before anything else.

To Make ur s*x session long lasting....always do sex everyday...sure ur long lasting...because u always taste the same thing until...the guy thing feel like a normal thing......Try ask ur bf to do so....sure long lasting.....how long do u want to long it......for me the best pationate time fore play 15 min....wrestling around 30 minit.....or if u want more power.....take gambir sarwak.....waliu...thats nice....but no feel because the guy thing only 'kebas"....
huhu

Doesn't look like it's due to obesity.

Has he gone to an endocrinologist to check his testosterone/estrogen levels? I think this can be done through blood test as well at those BP Labs.

Nah he's no where near obese.

There are government clinics that offer mental health doctors as well. But I'm not very sure about this as mental health is not very promoted over here in our country. People rather go pray to bomoh than look for a psychologist. So yea, I know there is that option but I don't know exactly how. If anyone knows how, it's a good time to share. You may wanna ask around in Health & Fitness subforum as well. People there are more knowledgeable.

Has it always been like this? Even when he masturbates himself?

he has not check his testosterone level yet, i'll ask him to see the doctor again...

he is not obese but he has a tummy umm...i don't think he will want to see a psychologist...

it has always been like that for him...there's no problem when he masturbates...but when he stop touching, it goes from 'hard' to 'soft' almost immediately...he cannot get it hard without touching...i'll try asking in the other section too...thanks!

the guy's stamina also contributes to the time
ask him to do some pc muscle training, see whether it helps or not

Well, based on what I've learnt during my abnormal psychology class on sexual disorders.
The disorder type is in the arousal stage of sex, where he's clearly unable to maintain erection - erectile disorder (ED).

Diabetes is a common cause for ED.
Is he taking any medications? It could be causing it.
Alcohol also affects the arousal stage. But I assume he's not drinking every time he's having sex.
Smoking can also lead to ED.

If its not physical, psychological factors are mostly something to do with cognitive thinking. Does he get non-sexual thoughts that affect his arousal? Is anything bugging him or troubling him?

Has he had any traumatic events when he was a child?

It could be anything affecting him. So it's still best if you look for professional help if you ask me. I think the main problem here is more to maintaining erection (ED) than duration of sex (PE).

rather him take <removed> better u find other men who are more better. there is many guy u should try before commit to one guy cos u dont know whether he will be ur husband

my advice is to get him to stop masturbating when you're not around.

This post has been edited by B@rt: Oct 20 2011, 01:21 PM

try kegel exercise.

healthy sex life doesn't mean to have longer sessions ooo! it's both feeling satisfied and fulfilling with each another...

probably you both have to communicate during XXX ? take short pause to kiss & caress each other whenever he is "cumming"...

then he won't have to take that pill that have possible side effects...

I don't think pills ever help, the only thing is gives is the satisfaction to your mind that you have taken the pills and it will now work.

What actually works is the male's brain. When the guy is almost about to discharge, he should immediately move the brain to something else other than the girl or intercourse. Try this once, there is no side effects and you will see the results.

I am married for 7 years, I can still go more than 25 to 30 minutes often

Hope it helps.

This post has been edited by hozyali: Oct 21 2011, 10:30 AM

I think he's stress at work?

i think he stress too...
stress can in deed cause such issue.
there are period where i hardly get myself harden for 1-2months due to stressness...

wow... so much censorship here

He says he does not have stress and nothing happened when he was a child...so it's called erectile disorder? is it the same as erectile dysfunction? he is not taking any medication, and he does not drink or smoke...
you are right... he has trouble maintaining erection...what i meant when i said duration is because he will lose erection when we change positions

maybe he is under stress and he doesn't know it maybe gambir will help him to be more confident? or maybe i have to find a way to help him relax...

real good girlfriend spotted

Young time take pill already. What if old already?

Don't have sex to often. Long long time once or you and ur bf tahan tahan then explode then will be a good 1.

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Added on October 22, 2011, 5:32 pmDunno got any under 18 girl or guys watching this.?

This post has been edited by Seremban_2: Oct 22 2011, 05:32 PM

I can't seem to think about any other possibilities besides your bf having a possible erectile dysfunction. There isn't enough blood flow in his erectile tissues to keep him erected.

Taking pills won't be solve his problem as stuff like <removed> only can relax the muscles in your bf's penis so that more blood can flow inside. This does not solve the problem at all.

Takkan your bf have to rely on this drugs for the rest of his life mer. It's not even cheap to begin with.

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Added on October 22, 2011, 6:16 pmLol. V.iagra is a censored word lmao. Fine I will use sildenafil instead.

This post has been edited by zstan: Oct 22 2011, 06:16 PM

Quick Solution
1. Sidenafil

Short Term Solution
Get the special condom from the condom man.
http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1671561

Long Term Solution
1. Take the Horny Goat Weed + Oyster Extract(Once a day and 30 mins before intercourse) (Obtainable from GNC/Pharmacist)
2. Take Fish Oil 2-3 times a day. Do not exceed, 4-6 pills a day. It indirectly thins your blood and can also cause diarrhea when overdose.
3. Limit ejaculation to once a week. (But start by taking 2 weeks off without ejaculation for recovery)
4. Every morning and before sleep, massage the pubic region (specifically the base of your privates and testicles) 5-10 mins during shower with warm/hot water.
5. Perform air squats during the morning (3x10, The more the better). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOdwETDQXCw . Indirectly increase bloodflow as well as a natural testosterone booster.
6. Goji Berry + Green Tea would be good as well.
7. For his eating diet, stick with greens, vegies, whole eggs and seafood.
8. Exercise at least 3-4 times a week to get the blood flowing.


Things to do before the activity


Should be better than new in 3 months.
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Have fun.

This post has been edited by zalmerox: Oct 23 2011, 02:43 AM

haha this is not pron forum ma

go to consult doctor

and he will diagnose it and give ur bf correct medicine and treatment

this is not smtg tat can cure by visiting pharmacy to buy med to cure flu or watsoever

It's ED (disorder/dysfunction same), not PE and if not mistaken <removed> is for PE?

It is still best to visit a proper doctor for consultation.
But you could try those natural herb remedies mentioned by other forumers here and see how it goes.

Also, check for diabetes and stress. We can be young and hence we think that this type of problems are not in us. We never know.

My bf is longer lasting if do it more frequent~ think that maybe every ppl has diffrent situation and solution~

Take pill will shorten his life for sure. Do it naturally and woman get,

Add 8 years of longer life: Have more sex with your partner http://health.yahoo.net/articles/aging/pho...ars-your-life#7 "Being in a satisfying relationship is good for your heart and soul. Women in a healthy monogamous relationship are significantly healthier compared with those who are either unhappy or sexually inactive, says Dr. Roizen."

Woman should let man F them more. Yea babe!

This post has been edited by buysell: Oct 30 2011, 05:51 PM

ask ur bf he masturbate a lot or not in past n now...

Wow, this sounds interesting
Where can we get it in KL ?



This might be the main probs, since masturbate can cause week erection ( due to the distinctive grip & sensation compare with the real 'situatio' )

When changing position, ur bf will change from "Hard" become "Soft", is partially soft or fully soft?

Even doing it frequently sometimes last longer and sometimes not. I guess it depends on mood and stress level.

Yup, found that if he masturbated a lot then it is difficult for him to maintain erection...

Soft...

Very good advice here.

practise practise and more practise

Came across this thread.....with an amusing subject title (wondering what he wanted to have removed).

From my own experience, I think it is due to the unnecessary pressure we men put on ourselves to meet our own expectation to satisfy women and perform better on the bed.

When we first started even if I were to grade my own performance, it was subpar but nevertheless I was reassured that I was doing alright. Soon I stopped creating unnecessary expectation on myself, my performance improved and leap further when I started other physical activities like weight lifting and running. My stamina improved and I could last much longer too.

I believe and personally feel that physical exercises keep my comfortable cardiovascular activity level in a higher range, as in I can go aggressive longer without having to keep up with my breathing as my body is comfortable with my higher heart beat rate. I did not read any article on this but I believe that the body only have so much amount of blood. If my heart and my breathing is comfortable, my blood will stay where it should stay rather than retracting back to my heart to provide me more oxygen. Of course, I think anxiety and stress also provide unnecessary higher heart rate.

I did consider such options like you mentioned but I fear of the harm I put my body through so I never did.

Of course, initially the unnecessary pressure mainly came from watching such materials as I compared my own performance with what I now believe to be scripted and probably edited to fulfill necessary screening hours.

Has anyone mentioned special massage that specifically focus on the male's part?

And of course the massage if to be done by the real professional.

My experience is that the massage does really help and the improvement on duration and erection after weeks of this massage treatment.

very interesting topic .............................

I didn't know guys will feel pressured to perform sex...sex is suppose to be enjoyed.
Thanks for sharing your experience! So guys should exercise more and keep fit to perform better I think exercise will help to reduce their stress level too.


Never heard about that but I'd feel uncomfortable if I were to let my boyfriend go.

hi TS , can i know u and your bf have healthy and safe sex?

wat are the precautions and usually wat condom u boyfriend use?
thanks!

First time he used condom but after that never use because I don't like the feeling..
I take morning after pills.

izzit safe to keep consuming pills?

thanks again

They are safe but may have side effects. Sometimes after taking morning after pills my breasts become more sensitive and tender, and also back pain. But the side effects will usually go away after a few days.

oh..i see..thanks man!

now i feel confident !

On the other hand, there are those whose boyfriends have problems cumming....... and the sessions are just far too long that both get exhausted

This post has been edited by jlim87: Dec 23 2012, 01:47 PM

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1830575

All you need to know about the pill. Go read.

wow...omgg..so much to read!!!

Please try out different setting for your sex session.
Have your session after a good night rest, to rejuvenated oneself before the vigorous thing.

Good or healthy sex, do not always have to depend on your partner's performance. You can self-help or self satisfying, relegate him to being your side-dish, with the intention to alleviate his pressure to perform whereby, both may learn to enjoy the session more.
If your situation didn't improve, ultimately, it is best that he seek professional help when he is ready.

Side note:
Inadvertently you may have piled more pressure on your bf since you have openly discussed it. Probably, masturbation is an escape route for him, with no expectation to hold it up and putting his virility to questioned.

im a man and from my view

1. your bf should exercise more for better physical maintain and can release stress somemore.

2. maybe you can try wear some sexy lingerie or cosplay to get him stimulate more.

3. try not to have sex too much, once in a few days is ok unless your bf is hardcore.

4. when having sex try bed scream so that your bf can feel more proud of himself and excited, this can help his erection longer since he feel so excite and stimulate.

anyway, try to make your bf feel better before, during and after sex so that he wont feel bad of his skills and feel more confident about his skills

defuq
mcd satu to shut me up


This post has been edited by sinister_sid: Dec 26 2012, 03:02 AM

maybe u are not pretty enough? i think its psychological problem. his mental strength not good enuf. try to take a break, dont do it so often..
can also try those tok batin. old man to massage him, so u dun have to worry.

This post has been edited by yorkhan: Dec 26 2012, 11:15 PM

Do more exercise frequently, running, jogging, cycling, as simple as that....

Nothing makes a guy limp faster than performance anxiety.

to prolong the session I have 2 choices for ur bf.
1) the fast results is to use gambir or delay spray you can brought online store.
2) this one takes time and effort without side effects is by constantly doing kegel excercise and while urinating hold the pee for 3-5sec and release the pee 2sec and hold back again, do this for a few times until the bladder is emptied.
good luck yo

This post has been edited by NeoMnemonic: Oct 19 2020, 05:15 PM

I do this type of massage. Some of the patients have too much bubbles (negative pathogens) around that parts. It needs to be clear all the bubbles using massage technique by professional of course. The energy such libido, stamina by exercise also play a big part for a great blood circulation to the male's part.

Cialis wont get you addicted.. because its also can use as medical treatment. Can get professional consultation from your doctors as well.

ps: I sell cialis before for healthcare professionals.