will u consider to come back to msia after a while, or is it worth to stay there for there rest of ur life?
I followed my husband to Australia a year and a half ago, he's an engineer.
I used to work in media industry back in Malaysia. It was very hard for me to get a "proper" job as I'm only on a business visa, not a PR or citizen. And my profession is not required here, the employers would rather get someone reliable (those who sure can stay long) and with local experiences.
AND... I do think they choose candidates based on skin color too. That's normal everywhere though. Like we won't hire bangla as our office clerk no matter how high qualification they have.
Ok. So I started as a waitress in Japanese restaurant, teach Chinese to Angmoh, do part time data entry jobs, enlarged my social circle and made connections. Finally working full time as a marketing exec for a local association (the president is a former Malaysian Chinese). Lucky me to even jumped to another higher paid position few months later...
anyway now i'm unemployed again, preparing for the next relocation.
I would consider myself to be lucky because i've met plenty from Malaysia or Singapore that couldn't even get a job here. Especially the wife/girl friends following their partners (usually engineers) here. They used to work high post. like managers, seniors in corporates but now not even a chance to attend for interview.
I could get a job at the very begining because I "lowered" myself to work as a waitress, i don't care about the status. Other people would.
I'm now one of these poor and sad housewives staying at home, doing the house chores, waiting for hubby to have dinner every evening.
Yea sometimes i live like a fortunate tai tai too.
But if i could choose, i want to work. I don't want to waste my work experience, i want to go out and meet people, being treated fairly, being independent.
So before coming, both husband and wife need to discuss about it thoroughly. How your life would change and what are you going to do if you're retrenched and have to go back to Malaysia and start over again.
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To me, life in Perth is boring. I'm not an outdoor person and i enjoy colorful and vibrant city life.
Some Malaysian SIngaporean famillies came ten years ago. Hoping to give the "Better Education" to their children (they were in primary school). Some are doing good now, some are not.
Due to peer pressure, they intend to not using the native tongue and only speak in English. They use fxck words in the conversation with parents and do not want to further study as the salary as working in subway is good enough for their living. Government is generous, they don't really need to think about the future.
Not like in Malaysia, we struggle hard.
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Anyway it all depends on individual
