The point Dreamer is trying to get across is how to succeed in achieving one's goals. Whether your goal is to have a fulfilling family life, or to be rich, or to be good at what you do, that's up to you. He's just trying to show ways to achieve your goals, esp if your goal is to be better than others.

This post has been edited by morgana_jara: Aug 21 2011, 12:03 PM

Hi Dreamer,

I like your advice and have read all three of your recent "teaching" threads.

So I would like to ask your opinion on my situation.

After graduation I started working in a big company under probation. Because of some issues, the probation was extended. Now they have confirmed me as full staff, however they said my performance is actually not good. But they like my willingness to learn, my ability to easily talk to clients and that I am a team player, so they took a chance on me. Although I am expected to learn fast on the job, sometimes I feel very slow and do not understand much. FYI this job is somewhat related to my degree but my degree only briefly taught us about the skills for this job. Sometimes I get really frustrated about not being able to meet their standards. However I do like my job.

I would like to know if it is worth staying on, or perhaps I should change to another profession within the industry, since I do not seem to be able to absorb the skills fast enough. I can and will fight to stay on in my job, but sometimes I wonder if I'm in the wrong job..