http://psychology.about.com/od/lindex/f/ea...elplessness.htm

squarepilot,

Really... Or, it is just 'Learned Helplessness" as per the URL...

<<somestimes its just gov fault for the country education system, or parents who are cannot afford their children fees>>

So what???

It is YOUR LIFE!!! If you want it to be BETTER, you have to DO SOMETHING to make it better.  You have to DO WHAT YOU CAN.

"Can Whine" attitude will not get you there.

"Can Do" will give you a shot...

Half of my parent's generation were massacred by Japanese Soldier during WWII in Malaya.  They survived and thrived.  They got NO HELPS and a lot of oppression from everyone else.

90+% of SRJK© are PRIVATELY FUNDED.  Chinese Independent School provide tuition waiver for capable poor student.  There are Private Scholarship and Charities in Malaysia.  Those people are not WAITING for government to do something.  They have a "Can Do" attitude.

<<somestimes its just gov fault for the country education system, or parents who are cannot afford their children fees>>

What you "Can Do" about this problem?? How much money do you donate to SRJK© and Chinese Independent school?? Ditto on Private Scholarship??

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=...1789&sec=nation

See above.  Why do people need to wait for the government to do something??

Dreamer