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post Jun 25 2011, 01:30 AM, updated 15y ago

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my baby boy now is around 3 months plus,since after my confinement, he started to dun really drink milk. for example, the first two weeks he drank milk regularly, and the next two weeks he started to slow down, sometimes 5-6 hours also cannot finish 3oz. then the next week he drink back like usual and then the following week again dowan to drink. whenever he dowan to drink milk, u give him then he willl started to cry very loudly.and now, it happens again, and now u give him water, he wan but when u fast fast change to milk when he is sucking water,he will cry and just wan water only. i bring him for check up during his 3th months, the doc say is ok as some babies dont really wan milk as they grow up, and his weight and height increase very well, so the doc ask me not to worry about it. but sometimes i see his tummy is flat flat.. sakit hatinya... and he just keep on sleeping... and dowan drink milk... why will this happen?? wat should i do??
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post Jun 25 2011, 03:50 AM

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If ur baby is hitting his milestones well, growing well and gaining weight regularly and most imprortantly, ur doc said u don't need to worry, i really don't think u should be worry la...

Did u calculate how much is ur baby drinking a day? how many hours apart?

In 3 more months, u can feed ur baby solid and from then on, u can increase your baby semi solid food intake to catch up.
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post Jun 25 2011, 09:22 AM

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QUOTE(m0gul3a0l3a0 @ Jun 25 2011, 01:30 AM)
my baby boy now is around 3 months plus,since after my confinement, he started to dun really drink milk. for example, the first two weeks he drank milk regularly, and the next two weeks he started to slow down, sometimes 5-6 hours also cannot finish 3oz. then the next week he drink back like usual and then the following week again dowan to drink. whenever he dowan to drink milk, u give him then he willl started to cry very loudly.and now, it happens again, and now u give him water, he wan but when u fast fast change to milk when he is sucking water,he will cry and just wan water only. i bring him for check up during his 3th months, the doc say is ok as some babies dont really wan milk as they grow up, and his weight and height increase very well, so the doc ask me not to worry about it. but sometimes i see his tummy is flat flat.. sakit hatinya... and he just keep on sleeping... and dowan drink milk... why will this happen?? wat should i do??
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Hi,

There could be several reasons why your baby might not be drinking milk. Are you feeding him your EBM or FM?

If Formula Milk:

1. He may not like the milk, may be you should consider changing
2. Maybe he doesn't like the bottle nipple, can try changing it and so on...
andrekua
post Jun 25 2011, 05:01 PM

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Hmm.. Encounter this when my son is also few months old. This is my personal experience but does not mean I encourage you to follow it.

My parents and relatives (aunties, not those young auntie) advised me to bring my son to those Chinese traditional babysitter. She will then use a needle to pop all the white spots in his mouth (something like pimples). According to them, these pimples like spots is what hurts when he suck on the bottle teat (don't ask me I believe or not). Cut the story short, it really help somewhat. But I have to say I went twice only, if I'm not mistaken at 3 and 6 months old. After he start teething, I didn't bother.

Like I said, don't ask me whether I believe or not. I also don't know why sucking teat with plain water does not hurt while sucking teat with milk hurt. At least it does work for my son. I have to say, it's not for the faint hearted as you would have to pin your baby while it's being performed and it hurts like hell.
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post Jun 25 2011, 06:37 PM

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QUOTE(sbux @ Jun 25 2011, 03:50 AM)
If ur baby is hitting his milestones well, growing well and gaining weight regularly and most imprortantly, ur doc said u don't need to worry, i really don't think u should be worry la...

Did u calculate how much is ur baby drinking a day? how many hours apart?

In 3 more months, u can feed ur baby solid and from then on, u can increase your baby semi solid food intake to catch up.
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hmm... if he is in good mood, he can finish up 3oz for every 2 hours... so is around 36oz... if he is not in good mood... sometimes i think around 12oz per day... but then when u see his tummy is flat... i also worry lo... can i start to give semi solid food early?? since he seems like do not have interest on milk...


Added on June 25, 2011, 9:12 pm
QUOTE(Mommy_2011 @ Jun 25 2011, 09:22 AM)
Hi,

There could be several reasons why your baby might not be drinking milk. Are you feeding him your EBM or FM?

If Formula Milk:

1. He may not like the milk, may be you should consider changing
2. Maybe he doesn't like the bottle nipple, can try changing it and so on...
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but this brand is he ownself choose de... usually he still drink it normally... just for a short period he will like that... if i wana change the milk.. wat type of brand i should try? now is using snow brand... i think its not the nipple problem as normally he can finish 3oz within 5 to 7 minutes..


Added on June 25, 2011, 9:15 pm
QUOTE(andrekua @ Jun 25 2011, 05:01 PM)
Hmm.. Encounter this when my son is also few months old. This is my personal experience but does not mean I encourage you to follow it.

My parents and relatives (aunties, not those young auntie) advised me to bring my son to those Chinese traditional babysitter. She will then use a needle to pop all the white spots in his mouth (something like pimples). According to them, these pimples like spots is what hurts when he suck on the bottle teat (don't ask me I believe or not). Cut the story short, it really help somewhat. But I have to say I went twice only, if I'm not mistaken at 3 and 6 months old. After he start teething, I didn't bother.

Like I said, don't ask me whether I believe or not. I also don't know why sucking teat with plain water does not hurt while sucking teat with milk hurt. At least it does work for my son. I have to say, it's not for the faint hearted as you would have to pin your baby while it's being performed and it hurts like hell.
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will it hurts??? i went to the pead and she told me it is call as "pearl" and wont cause any pain or itchiness... whr can i get those ppl to help me to pop it?? i thought it is all liquid inside?? my side and my husband side those relatives also dono this thing wo...

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post Jun 25 2011, 10:02 PM

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I did not try to Google it lastime but it is pretty well documented it seem.

I went to this middle age lady in Jinjang, Kepong. Not sure where you can find one in your area. I think only old uncle and auntie still believe in this practice.

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What is oral thrush?

Thrush is an infection caused by a yeast germ called Candida spp. The mouth is a common site where Candida spp. causes infection. Candidal infection in the mouth is called oral thrush. Other common sites for thrush to develop are the vagina, nappy area, and nail folds. (See separate leaflets called 'Vaginal Thrush', 'Candidal Skin Infection' and 'Nappy Rash' for more details about other types of thrush.)
Why do some babies get oral thrush?

Small numbers of Candida spp. commonly live on healthy skin and in a healthy mouth. They are usually harmless. However, an overgrowth of Candida spp. can occur in the mouth of some babies. This can cause a bout of oral thrush.

This overgrowth may happen because the baby's immune system is still quite immature and so cannot control the Candida spp. levels. Another possible cause for oral thrush infection is if your baby has had a recent course of antibiotics. This is because the antibiotics can kill off healthy bacteria that live in your baby's mouth. These healthy bacteria normally help to control the levels of Candida spp. in your baby's mouth. If there are less healthy bacteria around, candidal overgrowth can occur. Also, if you are breast-feeding and you have recently been on antibiotics yourself, the levels of your healthy bacteria can be affected. This can make you, or your baby, more likely to develop thrush.

About 1 in 7 babies develops a bout of oral thrush at some point. It is most common in babies younger than 10 weeks, but it can occur in some older babies too. Oral thrush is not usually due to poor hygiene, and it does not usually mean that your baby is ill in any other way. Some babies have recurring bouts of oral thrush.
What are the symptoms of oral thrush?

White spots usually develop in your baby's mouth and on their tongue. The spots may join together to form larger spots called plaques. They may become yellow or grey. Your baby may not be bothered by the infection. However, sometimes their mouth becomes sore. Some babies may drool saliva, or refuse to feed properly because of soreness.

Note: if you are breast-feeding, it is possible that your baby can pass on thrush infection from their mouth to your nipples. This can be very painful for you. Your nipples can become cracked and sore. See your doctor if you think that you may have thrush infection of your nipples. Your doctor may suggest some cream to apply to your nipples to clear up the infection.
What is the treatment for oral thrush?

In some babies, no treatment is needed. Many mild cases of oral thrush only last for a short time - just a few days or so - and clear without any treatment.

If treatment is started, your doctor will usually prescribe a gel that contains an anti-thrush drug called miconazole. You smear this gel on to the affected areas in your baby's mouth, using a clean finger, as often as prescribed by your doctor. Follow the instructions carefully. Use the gel after a feed. To avoid the very small risk of choking, apply a little at a time and not to the back of the throat. The drug works by killing the candidal germs within the inside of your baby's mouth. Strictly speaking, miconazole gel is not licensed to be used in babies under four months old. However, many doctors are happy to recommend its use in babies of all ages.

An alternative treatment for oral thrush is drops which contain an anti-thrush drug called nystatin. You use a dropper which comes with the drops to place the liquid on to affected areas within your baby's mouth. Nystatin drops tend to be used if miconazole is not suitable for your baby for some reason, or if miconazole gel has not been effective.

You should continue with the treatment that your doctor prescribes, for two days after the thrush has cleared. See your doctor if the thrush has not cleared within seven days of starting treatment.
Can oral thrush be prevented?

Most bouts of oral thrush occur for no apparent reason. However, the following tips may help to prevent some bouts:
Regularly sterilise all dummies and other mouth toys used by your baby.
If you bottle-feed, regularly sterilise all feeding equipment, especially teats.
Some people suggest giving a baby a drink of sterilised water after a feed. This rinses away any residual milk in the mouth which Candida spp. may thrive on.

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post Jun 26 2011, 01:35 AM

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It's difficult to exactly suggest Formula milk brand as you asked cos what works for my baby might not work for yours... Mine is drinking Enfa
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post Jun 29 2011, 11:16 PM

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force ur baby to drink.
mean just put in the mouth and keep turning when the baby is sleeping
hope it help smile.gif
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post Jun 30 2011, 08:32 AM

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Your baby only 3mths, don't simply try anything. Since your paed said baby is fine.. and he is not sick. Just don't do funny thing that might hurt him.
As for the milk intake, like you said.. when not in good mood.. he mayb consume about 12oz per day. Take example 3-4hr take 3oz, and assume he took 3-4x in day time that accomodate tat 12oz. Balance hour is sleep .. I don't see any problem. This is very fine... is just the baby is not big eater. Just don't compare your baby with other babies who drink lots of milk. His consumption of 12oz for 3mth baby is acceptable and that is during his bad mood season.. when good mood he drinks more. So, I don't see any problem with this.

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QUOTE(ledoci @ Jun 29 2011, 11:16 PM)
force ur baby to drink.
mean just put in the mouth and keep turning when the baby is sleeping
hope it help smile.gif
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this is a very dangerous practice, you could choke your baby by doing it, i don't recommend it at all.
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post Jul 7 2011, 11:33 AM

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QUOTE(ledoci @ Jun 29 2011, 11:16 PM)
force ur baby to drink.
mean just put in the mouth and keep turning when the baby is sleeping
hope it help smile.gif
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Dude, are you even a parent?

Have you ever heard of kids being dead after choking/drowning in their own milk?

 

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