when gathering...haha

u said end of month busy?

end of month i really busy..cannot other than end of month meh....hehe this month end is my busy day leh..moving things in and out to my condo place

gathering?

sei amy ask then not free

go without u

yerrrr gum sui gar~~

To all my kakaks and abangs here. I hope I am at the right topic to share my problems and seek advise.

It has been a heart-wreaking journey I have walked on, ever since I knew I am into girls. When I was younger, I had always been in constant worries to what-if people found out on my sexuality preference. However, as time passed and as I grew older, I realized that it is something I will have to face if I truly wish to be myself.

Lately, one-way-or-another, there have been members of my family suspecting my 'preference'. There were 'talks' and 'gossips' in the family concerning about my gender interest. One-way-or-another, my mother found out and she confronted me of my condition.

Being honest and the fact that I never planned to lie to her for any matter, I confessed and even though she was not able to accept initially, I poured out my feelings to her. That, what I am is still me, that this is not something I choose but rather what I have always been.

My mother grew to accept but I knew, deep down inside, she hope that I Will not turn to the 'dark-side'

Then there comes the case of her upsetting over these issues:
1.) what if your dad were to find out. ( my dad's has a hell-lotta-traditional-mindset and he will never tolerate this )
2.) what if relatives were to find out ( i have a hell-lotta relatives and mom was concern to how she will have to face them )

Then there's me, pondering and wondering inside:
1.) I am still me, I am able to accept who I am but is there a way that I could have enable the matter to resolve in a much more pleasant manner?
2.) I am rather good looking but unfortunately preferring towards the boyish dress-up right now, hence the suspect. Should i switch to a much more feminine approach to prevent further 'gossips' from re-surfing?

I just wished I could prevent any further 'chaos' from happening in the family. and especially to my mother, she has went through very tough times and I really do not want to see her having to upset over this again.
I know one-day-or-another, I Would have to confess but perhaps, now is not the time. Could I be that I am delaying till the time comes for me to find voice out?

Thank you for reading and the help in advance.

well...born as a PLU really not easy to face the real world..compare to my issue hor...urs is nothing...well is not easy for family to accept for PLU as alot family were kinda traditional thinking and not accept the fact...just give sometime for ur family and hopefully they will understand one day and happy to u bringing ur partner showing up..my story is far more worst...

1) well my parent find out my plu issue on 2009 september and my dad was really traditional thinking mindset ppl...so arguing was happen so soon but does not stop me from being my self..because we are stil who we are....for dad indeed is a hard to let him understand the fact...give him sometime lor ..if he happen to find out..

2) well...my case because of GID issue..so my parent also like urs want their faces more...what i do now is try to avoid relative meeting lor..if u feel uncomfortable with....

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1) to fix this...to attempt to fix..is communication....u need alot of conversation with ur parent...

2) wearing seriously does not change who u are lor....but u may prefer more comfortable wearing lor...for me i will wear what my parent want when with them...when i go out i will change the cloth that i prefer....but i am moving out staying alone la..so will be more freedom and i think most of the member is not staying with parents right....as far i remember there is few member was not staying with parents


good luck

This post has been edited by Amy09: Feb 28 2012, 12:55 PM

hi all,

how do u all know that u r PLU??

Im confuse about myself, i think im a bisexual.

I am a girl, but i feel that im more like girls than boys.

maybe i have lack of confident to myself after i have rejected by a boy i like.

from that time, i have start to fall in love with girls and my 1st love also is a girl.

anyone can give some comment?

thanks for reading.

well...we just know it...nothing to define..sexual preference is ok one..like girls is not something bad....^^

This post has been edited by Amy09: Feb 28 2012, 09:57 PM

guys -______-

yo!!

seriously miss you guys

haha i heard there is a gathering mar...no meh...hohoho

aww
just tell me here if got any
rarely open fb nao xD

hmm ok

I tot amy planning?

ehh...me again ar????

weyy i kenot join any gathering b4 15th

i also cannot make it too...end of month i free la..

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Added on March 6, 2012, 8:44 amcan we make the gathering on april? this month i kinda..fully booked

if ok then i can plan things lor

This post has been edited by Amy09: Mar 6 2012, 08:44 AM