May 11 2011, 09:45 AM
Do u think parenting is easy? never. Do u think speak to their children will make their children to become a better person? what about school moral education?
Do u seriously think student will imply the morale defination to their life?
Well, i came from a rotten family and i used to be as bad arse as the girls. I steal, i lied, and i fight all the time.
My mom is more to soft type and my dad was the scariest person on earth to me. The only person im afraid of but still i broke all the rules.
By time of growing up before entering college back then, i changed. Not becoz of teacher or parents but religion.
Having said that, i started to mix with churches friend rather than hooligan. I understand how i was changed from a bad person to a better one.
So, be in the kids shoe, they r to be educated in the right way. Education is nothing to attract the kids today becoz we all have overwhelmed knowledge, thanks to mr google.
All i want to say is, know ur kids friend, know who they are mixing with. If u dont have time to teach them, send them to church, or something like a sunday school.
dont be skeptical and selfish on the belief u r dealing, u dont bother to study the religion n believing blindly. I was changed in a place where i
mix with good people, good teaching on life perspective and more over love from the group.
Asking all parents to be nice to their kid and teach them in a proper way, well, I must ask, who studied parenting before giving birth?
My dad has nothing for me to learn, but i learned not to be like how my dad treated me. From there, I know how do i treat my kids in the future.
although my dad wasnt a good role model, i stop blaming him and forgive. Instead, i treat her differently with love.
So who's bad? Just voice out my feeling, no flaming please. peace!
QUOTE(furryfluffy @ May 9 2011, 07:44 PM)
I blame the parents. Know how to give birth dunno how to teach them. Parents themselves also no morals n became bad role models to children.
I speak from experience teaching in a rotten school with kids like this from troubled family backgrounds.
I speak from experience teaching in a rotten school with kids like this from troubled family backgrounds.
QUOTE(abubin @ May 10 2011, 12:33 PM)
I agree most of the blame is on the parents of the bully. I have seen some bad role models whereby these aunties act like inconsiderate b****es. Drive like a bull. They should realize they are indirectly telling their kids, it's okay to behave like hooligans.
As for teacher's role, I guess they should try to teach these kids better not only in terms of academic but also morale and as a decent human being. At least the teachers could have identified the rotten eggs and stopped them from harassing other students. Instead, they just let it be and think their only job there is academic teaching.
Please don't blame the person being bullied for not telling their parents. It's not easy for them to voice it out. Most of these kids are embarrassed of what happened and some of them even blame themselves. Most have problems expressing themselves due to problems such as asperger's syndrome. That is the reason why such kids are easily picked upon cause the bullies can get away with it.
As for teacher's role, I guess they should try to teach these kids better not only in terms of academic but also morale and as a decent human being. At least the teachers could have identified the rotten eggs and stopped them from harassing other students. Instead, they just let it be and think their only job there is academic teaching.
Please don't blame the person being bullied for not telling their parents. It's not easy for them to voice it out. Most of these kids are embarrassed of what happened and some of them even blame themselves. Most have problems expressing themselves due to problems such as asperger's syndrome. That is the reason why such kids are easily picked upon cause the bullies can get away with it.
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