May 12 2011, 11:32 PM
QUOTE(cc980024 @ May 11 2011, 08:49 AM)
Nowadays being parents is very tough. We are worried our kids get bullied and also worry that our kid will bully ppl.
Hey, I recall old days when my younger sister get bully by her classmates. Myself being 2yr older (at standard 4), I bring along a group of my classmates and went to my sister's class. Call for those kids (who bully my sis) and warn them. After that, my sis never complain that she get bullied anymore.
But that was old days where kids are less agressive and scare of elder. I doubt this way can work anymore now. Even the parents confront the bully... I scare ended up they bully the victim even more.
lol! i recall i did same as u oso~ i'm 4 yrs older den my sis. everyday go her class make sure nobody bully her. whoever bully her or scold her i'll scold them till they scared. lol! some even bring their siblings come and immediately i report this to principal. not to say i coward but is the right way to protect own self and siblings. never fight blindly. Hey, I recall old days when my younger sister get bully by her classmates. Myself being 2yr older (at standard 4), I bring along a group of my classmates and went to my sister's class. Call for those kids (who bully my sis) and warn them. After that, my sis never complain that she get bullied anymore.
But that was old days where kids are less agressive and scare of elder. I doubt this way can work anymore now. Even the parents confront the bully... I scare ended up they bully the victim even more.
nowadays kids are too pampered. not only the teachers have the responsibility for this, parents and education department too. my mum is a teacher and when she everyday come bck from home, always complain that the principal always give unnecessary pressure, want the student be obedient but cannot scold the student. scare later the parents come to school complain that the teacher overpowered. another thing is, the students are often very rebellious and tends to get revenge when get scolded by teacher. and the parents of the students don't take any action about this. can you see the problem? everywhere these type of problem also exist. it already not the matter of choosing better school will not get bullied. even good school smart student will bully people also. just train your children the wise action to take when this happen to them. teach them to be protective. and don't too pamper your children. you'll spoiled them.
This post has been edited by huangpl89: May 12 2011, 11:34 PM
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