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School bully problem getting worse..., what should we do as parents?
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furryfluffy
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May 9 2011, 07:44 PM
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I blame the parents. Know how to give birth dunno how to teach them. Parents themselves also no morals n became bad role models to children.
I speak from experience teaching in a rotten school with kids like this from troubled family backgrounds.
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furryfluffy
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May 11 2011, 11:25 AM
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QUOTE(pixelatte @ May 11 2011, 09:45 AM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « pretty useless i would say regarding to the trend of today. children are too out smart the parents, and parents remain busy as usual atruggling with life.
Do u think parenting is easy? never. Do u think speak to their children will make their children to become a better person? what about school moral education?
Do u seriously think student will imply the morale defination to their life?
Well, i came from a rotten family and i used to be as bad arse as the girls. I steal, i lied, and i fight all the time.
My mom is more to soft type and my dad was the scariest person on earth to me. The only person im afraid of but still i broke all the rules.
By time of growing up before entering college back then, i changed. Not becoz of teacher or parents but religion.
Having said that, i started to mix with churches friend rather than hooligan. I understand how i was changed from a bad person to a better one.
So, be in the kids shoe, they r to be educated in the right way. Education is nothing to attract the kids today becoz we all have overwhelmed knowledge, thanks to mr google.
All i want to say is, know ur kids friend, know who they are mixing with. If u dont have time to teach them, send them to church, or something like a sunday school.
dont be skeptical and selfish on the belief u r dealing, u dont bother to study the religion n believing blindly. I was changed in a place where i
mix with good people, good teaching on life perspective and more over love from the group.
Asking all parents to be nice to their kid and teach them in a proper way, well, I must ask, who studied parenting before giving birth?
My dad has nothing for me to learn, but i learned not to be like how my dad treated me. From there, I know how do i treat my kids in the future.
although my dad wasnt a good role model, i stop blaming him and forgive. Instead, i treat her differently with love.
So who's bad? Just voice out my feeling, no flaming please. peace!  Thanks for sharing. No one said parenting is easy. But some parents are taking it too easy. U want a good horse but refuse to let the horse eat good grass. It wont work. Parents are the closest to the kids and if they cant teach the kids well, who has the responsibility? Blame the school? The society perhaps? Everyone's upbringing is different. I admit its easy to be bad but if parents dun check on the kid, it will be getting worse.
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