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Angela Lee
post May 5 2011, 01:02 AM

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QUOTE(thieflord @ May 4 2011, 06:40 PM)
my dad has depression for the past month.. now he stays at home, not wanting to go to work. he says he "no mood" wan go work, and thus chooses to stay at home, doing nothing.. it's been like this for over a month now.. im worried about him and our family's financial status.. his business also hangs in the balance cuz he's nt working for over a month already.. any advice?
need some advice to motivate him and return himself to normal...

thx..
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Hello friend, depression is very common in more developed countries.
My friend is a psychologist in Australia. Here are her comments:
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Does he have any community groups to attend to (e.g., church)?
Social interactions help to reduce depression as it provides some emotional support.
Spiritually, you should try to talk more with him more, comfort him and take up more social/personal responsibilities for his work.
Tell me more symptoms (e.g., ongoing television watching, sleeping a lot, loss of interests in routine activities, etc), then proceed.
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Spiritually, I suggest praying for him. I know it really helps! Angela smile.gif
Angela Lee
post May 5 2011, 01:50 AM

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QUOTE(thieflord @ May 5 2011, 12:45 AM)
yeah.. i suggested him to do that, i told him to go for a walk or a jog with me every weekends and he says sure, why not. i just hope this cures him completely sooner or later..
hmm, he travelled quite a lot already, but tht was before he fell depressed. now he has no interests to do anything at all.
yes, he attends a buddhist association.. but no longer.. now he stays at home, sleep and eat only.. no tvs no nothing. just pure boredom..
other symptoms include, lost interest in activities and work, sleeping a lot , and eats little..
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Here is an important question to ask your daddy:

"What is bothering you in your mind? You know that I really care about you so I want you to tell me your problem"

Please do that and listen first to his feelings.

Tell me how it goes.

Oh boy. Cheer up smile.gif

This post has been edited by Angela Lee: May 5 2011, 01:52 AM
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post May 5 2011, 12:57 PM

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QUOTE(faceless @ May 5 2011, 08:13 AM)
TS,
Just leave your dad alone.
1) Not likely he will listen to you.
2) You are pressuring him and that can make things worse.
3) He will snap out of it in due time.
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Your first and second points are inaccurate and misleading.
Family members provide very high quality emotional support for the depressed sufferer.
And they certainly want to feel to support and care coming from the family.
Communication is vital is this context.
"Just leave your dad alone" is not only irresponsible and may lead to undetected problems.





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post May 5 2011, 09:33 PM

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Also one important thing to check: "How long has this been going on for?"

Because the longer the depression, there is a higher susceptibility to morbidity or even psychosocial disability.

The longer you dad is unable to get back to regular life, the harder it is to recover (e.g., losing the skills or motivation to perform daily functions).

Make sure you check and monitor it okay? smile.gif
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post May 5 2011, 09:48 PM

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QUOTE(rocket_jet @ May 5 2011, 08:41 PM)
Your dad could also suffer binary disintergration. The faster he gets help the better icon_rolleyes.gif
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Better explain the term binary disintegration.
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post May 6 2011, 12:46 AM

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QUOTE(rocket_jet @ May 5 2011, 09:03 PM)
It is the dying of brain cell and the natural causes could make one entity not interested in life as a person ages icon_rolleyes.gif
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What effective treatment is available for this "binary" thingy?
Where to get help for this?



 

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