*gulp* ...I'd almost ruled myself out, but jumping in anyway...

...Our doc recommended this method... okay I cannot for the life of me remember the name, but it's where the lady gets something planted into her skin (upper arm, if I remember correctly)... neither me nor the wife enjoy condoms, and she sometimes forgets to take the birth control pills so he recommended -that- method... Okay, a quick google gave me the answer---> Implanon. Supposedly he said this would be the best solution for us. Yeah, as we were told, this method is fit-and-forget for up to 5 years, so no more 'Opps did I or didn't I forget the pills..." or broken rubber...

...dear wife was squemish about the procedure (inserting into the skin and dreads having it poking her under the skin) so until she gets over that and agrees to the procedure, it's up to me to... pull out, for the time being... 

Implanon, in case you missed it.