QUOTE(tempxyz @ Mar 30 2011, 10:25 PM)
Just broken up with my 7 yrs gf. Live in my house for 5-6 yrs, seldom hlp with house work (I think only help less than 20 times in 7 yrs), we ware planning to get marry this yr, thus I've spent around 130K to upgrade our hse and she doesn't spend anything. Moreover after arrive home always ask me to do misc task (sitting there ask me go down stairs take water, etc...), and I always pick up her mess. She just went HK, said want to look for our wedding ring as its cheaper there, I'm not rich so I told her you can get anything 2000 and below, whereas for mine, just around 100+ enough (as I don't really care about jewelry), but she didn't manage to find it. Just came home frm HK yesterday, and today as usual she left her things everywhere after using it, I just said 'haiyo why you so 'mou sau mei' (always didn't put back things after you use it), she replied 'why you always complain me, best we seperate',then she packed her stuff and went home today.....funny though I don't feel that sad, infact thinking if I ended up marrying her it may not be good for me also (a person who live in my hse for free and never contribute anything, still complaining regularly, and never supported anything I do), well it's ok if she goes........but nd to find new g/f again also sien, well better focus on my job, nowadays girls all 'ada wang, ada amoi', you wanna get girls like in the movie, that'll be with you during sunny and rainy day and support whatever you do? forget it i guess....
Hey should I said congra to you? 7 years, not too long and not too short. Besides, she kept taking advantages on you, but I'm sure there must be something that can keep you two together for these 7 years. When we end up a long relationship, we always feel hesitate to start a new one. It's like everything is gone and need to start being single again, do things alone again. It didn't sound too bad. Start our own life, doing things we like to do, watching movies we like, hang out with your friends..things go normally. Later on, feeling better, and here we start to look for new relationship again. It's life! It's not every girls like that, like money only. Well, I can't deny, many of them, yes. But most of them just want to have a comfortable living style. I 'm sure one day you will find the one for you or maybe "she" finds you. Good luck
Mar 31 2011, 06:56 PM

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