u build a relationship based too much on money, you'll end up having regular disagreements based on those stories...

not being an expert myself... i tend to be like TS.
A real lasting relationship also is about being able to both do /enjoy different things together....does not mean it needs to be similar interest...
and yet, still emotional be attached to one another...

unfortunately her lack of "owning" something in the house probably relates to her irresponsible nature.
This is probably something, TS needs to have a indirect approach of speaking with her.
You would agree that communication is everything...and it's not about being patience among each other...you're choosing to live a lifetime with this person....hence, you would also want to be understood in terms of communication.
Your seriousness counts too here, coz you are at partially at fault to be "cin cai" at times...and allowed this to happen.


anyway, Good luck with your marriage bro.