A relationship is like s ahare market it have its ups and downs. Dont tell me everytime u a tinkle feeling inside you then you make others suffer.

Let's say u end up with your colleague she then become boring u meet another girl so will the above repeat itself again? So it never ends because you do not know what you want.

The problem is always been you. Its normal for a human being to have tinkling feeling but be in control.

Exactly like share market the more money you put the more you make and also might lose. The more effort you put in the relationship the bigger it will grow. Effort to grow can be in many ways like traveling , do some weird stuff you guys never tried before, dancing.

If u just sit there and tell yourself i dont feeling anymore you are right because its your choice even u will deny it. Why? Because u didnt do anything to make the difference


If i am your girl ill just dump you and ignore you for good ! how can a person have doubts within the relationship? If yes your relationship have never have a path or plan.








"most people might think why dont i go after my colleague, after get my colleague ady then only break with my gf... well, i find it very disrespectful towards my girl if i did that when my gf is still with me. "
While still with your gf u can have such thing pop out u already wrong. I dont see what to respect on you. If u let go of your colleague yea u might get my respect

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Feb 24 2011, 07:54 AM

Heart will say worth to give up. Logic will say not worth to give up

Selfish ma to be honest. Ts only think about his own feelings but never think of his gf or ex gf feeling. Imagine u in her position u like a girl so much and she tell u she confuse choosing u between another guy. How u feel? U guys give him respect?

Some event as such mght cause a very bad chain of events like the ex gf mind just snap never to trust guy because her previous relationship failed. She go around cheating guys and do the same to prevent herself ever to get hurt.

It shows ts is not a creative person. He is boring and u meet another gal more fun he switch .

Relation ship

See the word relation? Its require 2 persons to create fun stuff, events, and etc not u didn't do anything and say boring then give up. It's totally your fault except everything u do your gf or ex gf say no different story

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Feb 24 2011, 09:12 AM

Yeah that not only apply to guys but girls as well. Seen many already.

A relationship is like a ballroom dancing.

It requires both to dance at the same rhythm of the song. If one of the partner is too fast or slow the other must compensate to suit. Due to both doing it so well others cant see their flaw aka give and take in a relationship. When the mutual trust is strong nothing can break the partner apart except unforseen circumstances like death , sickness or etc

begining of course its tough, tiring and painful for both but the reward is u both learn how to become 1.

I am seeking for such partner but it dont seems to be that easy.


Starting a relationship is easy , maintaining it is not easy due to lack of a very important ingredient in it. Like TS story the same lack of the most important ingredient

This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: Feb 24 2011, 04:59 PM

Another expensive lesson i seen happen to many NEVEREVER GET YOUR COLLEAGUE AS YOUR GF.

Why? Everyday see her AT WORK then AFTER WORK then WEEKEND after awhile u realize like your ex gf or gf she is boring everyday same thing see her also same dont see her.

Its good i hope TS regret and when he found out its lust the ex gf do not accept him back. Let him learn the expensive lesson.

Ts u mention u cried for 1.5 months now imagine yourself as your gf or ex gf being throw around and become an option how does she feel?. If you are that kind and soft person u wont even start this thread? Even after so many of us advice u already u still in choosing?