LOL..You cannot check whether the person is clean or not via physical examinations itself since it depends totally on the stages of the manifestation of the disease.

Like wise with condom, it can reduce the risk but there's also a few percentage of risks which includes if there's any minor cuts/injury from oral sex.

I have patients whom the wife has been "playing" around and the husband did not know until his wife was pregnant and a mandatory STD test was taken proven to be positive for herpes infection. The fetal life was in danger, the first thing that came to our mind was the husband's "fault" but when we did the test on him, the results came back to be negative. So how sure are u along the road of marrige that such things could not happen?

This post has been edited by hamster9: Oct 14 2006, 10:42 AM

depends la. Usually the doctor will give her antibiotics jab la (but not most of the time since the doctor need to further examine the mother again)