sex is pleasant. sex is good. but sex might also be ur miserable company in the future.

Safest sex are masturbation and sex-chat. But not as pleasant, isn't it?

There's no telling u can get STDs or not. You might be wearing 5 layers of condoms but still get one, or threesome homosexuals would do anal and blowjob without wearing anything but are still perfectly healthy. At this rate, if you still wanna get some pleasure, u just have to take the risk.

Different people have different upbringing and their own POVs about sex and romance. As for me, the one who keeps his/her virginity until marriage will lead happier and healthier lives, because sex is not the only thing that keeps them alive.