what a loyalty person... yeah, I have find someone that has exastly same opinion with me....
give our wholelife spouse the best present on the marriage... guess I need not to say it here rite???

Then stop engaging in pre-marital sex. That'd definitely will avoid you from any suffering.

Where in KL can we take tests for STDs?

thx...gud info TS..

girls can check for STI during pap smear testing, right? what about boys?

when symptoms showed up, like discharge, rashes etc.

but unlike male, female doesnt show up symptoms for some STI such as chlamydia. so do some regular specific tests, e.g. chlamydia testing for chlamydia if you suspect, either ur bf have such things, or regular unprotected sex with diff partner.

wear twice protection la..

RM40-50 at any clinic for the test..

You should be able to organize an appointment with a doctor in a clinic or just go to the nearest public or private hospital and get yourself checked. It's always a relieve to know that you're healthy and in a good condition. Body, mind and soul.

Its rude to ask a partner if she/he has STDs before intercourse. Even if you have asked, i think its better to forget the chances of getting laid. Just my 2 cents.

example?

female condom + a male condom?

I don't think anyone would ask before an intercourse. As a matter of fact, no one really asks. All we want is to get laid and therefore regret when we're diagnosed having STD. All in all, the best way for now is to have protection just to be in the safe side of things. It's a risk you take for having many sex partners, but again, the choice is yours to be made. If loyal to only one partner that you really know his/her health background, then it wouldn't have to come to this.

wan to have sex, and stil scare dont sex,

scare to have sex but must have sex wear condom,

but wear condom still scare of accident of some part. chop ur thing ,

den everything done force not to do lol.

haha, I guess you're right at some point. It all comes to the risk you take.

I'll be traveling to KL soon I think. Where in KL can I get a full check for STD?

biatche, u can go to any clinic and ask d doctor u'd like STD check. it seems u hv to pass thru a doctor ..and u cant go straight to external lab providing such test , as it seems they dont deal with customer directly. The doctor will tk yr blood and send it to outside lab for test , for eg. in malaysia..mayb Gribbles or may be PathLab. tell the doctor u want comprehensive test. HTH

Sometimes, you may get STD though you have your condom on. How pathetic...

Yes, many ppl dont know that even with "safe practise".. u can still get STD.. for example, Hepatitis, HSV1 and 2, plus HPV. These are contracted by saliva/skin contact. Frightening..tatz why the best policy is be faithful with your single partner and be thankful of your health. There was once a friend of mine who did a survey, and noted that many young ppl now practise non-safe and dont really care/know about the consequences.. not to mention, teenagers who went to rave party are under influenced of etc mind blocking stuff. it will be costly to their future and this will increase the medical bills our country had to bear

HEY, U people get the facts correct before writing here okay. blood tests itself is insufficient. u need to get the doctor to check your private parts. sexually active people who have multiple sex partners should really get it checked. the last thing u wan is to get complications from std. i dont want to scare u guys here, but m glad that god created std, as it remind people to stay away from promiscuity

i wana ask:

can std cause cervical cancer?

thanks