Thank u but i m juz curious that y is it wet even inside of her pants??could it even b mine???until now there is still no news of her period coming..if relli she is pregnant is there any ways to do early abortion with less trouble and pain?? i m kinda worried about her

ooo i see haah coz i m too worried so i did an experiment by pressing boxes wif water against the same jeans and onto the panties and suprisingly it went thru....tats wad made me worry agian haha

There are many things you'll need to learn. You should not be afraid to ask her regarding this type of topic. It's something both of you will learn and grow together. Couples that are able to talk openly and comfortably about this are the ones that enjoy sex the most. Think about it.

haha well i will try on tat but i may still wanna b safe, maybe i will bring her to get some blood test to check whether she is pregnant??but around how much is it usually for the blood test??

Hi there. I spent the last hour and a half reading through the whole thread but am still worried about my case.

Yesterday at 10+pm, my guy and I were making out and then proceeded to remove our clothes. Guess we got caught up in the moment and I allowed him to insert into me slightly (I know I felt it did not go all the way into the cervix, just within the vaginal walls. I use tampons regularly so I can feel) and we were doing it for about a minute. Erm that was my first time but definitely not his (he's quite an experienced guy who has had sex times before) and he assured that he knew how to time it such that he would withdraw before ejaculation. I felt him hardening and it growing bigger inside me and he quickly withdrew and started masturbated himself, ejaculating outside of me about 10-15 seconds after he withdrew. We then washed up in the bathroom. About half an hour later, we did it again and likewise, he withdrew way before he ejaculated, and we immediately washed up thenafter.

I also read that studies cannot really confirm whether precum contains sperms or not, but am feeling very paranoid at the moment, mainly because we did not use a condom. Called him up today and talked about it. Got very annoyed at him cos it seems like he is shrinking responsibility. I was saying what if there really was a chance I could get pregnant, and he said then you got two options, to keep it or get rid of it, obviously without including him in anything.

As I'm living in Singapore, I think I can only obtain the ECP by visiting a GP but yes I admit I am shy about going to my nearby GP (what if they tell my parents about it, the clinic assistants know me as well).

As of now, it's been 22 hours since we first did it and it was 5 days after my period that it happened. Would appreciate some counselling

Hi guys,

I knw what im asking may be alil off topic.But i dont know where to ask my question.

so heres the story,my gf had her period on 4th november and we tried to have sex 2 weeks later(not proper 1 really since it was her first time and she cant bare the pain,and i didnt penetrate fully so i withdraw my ****).But the next day after having sex,she had her period again.Now it has been 1 month since the last time she had period.is there by any chance she's pregnant?

Hope you guys can ans me.sorry for my bad english.

Thanks.

Yea,she have a very irregular period cycle.Sometime its late sometimes its early.

Im just alil worried.Just having a thought if there's precum went in.But i didnt insert my d*** properly into the vagina also.

Well I am certainly more paranoid than the average person but not to the extreme, where friends have said that I'm just being too paranoid about things, studies, sport races etc . However, my close friends who aren't paranoid people did say they would be as paranoid as me if they were in my situation.

I guess I try not to get too stressed up about it yet the thoughts still creep up in my mind and then the cycle of paranoia starts again, and though I already read up yesterday, I read it again. And the GP thought keeps flashing in my mind as the time ticks away. Frankly, websites like THIS scare me.

Also, the arse just called as I was typing this but I ignored the call. We do the same sport though and I will see him face to face tomorrow. Our friends don't know about the relationship also.

When I mentioned OC i meant other oral contraceptives and thanks for the info, kinda useful in case durex condoms fail me...

Secondly, not everything stated on the Internet is true. Keep that in mind.

Lastly, dump your bf. 

Yeah i did buy 2 boxes. Just to be save, I've swallowed the third pill 12 hours after that to relieve and 'comfort' myself. Does this increase or prolong the its effectiveness? So far i do not feel any discomfort. Does this has any adverse effect by taking 3-4 pills just for 'one-time-intercourse'?

Nice thread, and get good info on the comments provided from all the kind forumers. To be frank i'm used to sometimes having intercourse with condoms and sometimes don't. Yeah my gf will sometimes having a late period after we have intercourse without condoms - i will buy the test kit for her when her period date suppose to due but still no sign of coming. She have not tried any pills before due to lack of knowledge. But however, because i don't want to take the risk anymore, i'm now always have safe sex with her (besides, we getting married soon)

How effective is the MAP? any experiences?

Hi,

I saw you comment a lot in the ECP thread. I need help here. My gf and I had sex last nite and my condom broke. The thing is, I ejaculated outside her body and I not sure how many pre cum went into her. So I want to ask, is it better to buy postinor 2 pill for my gf to eat? Can help me with this??

Thanks.

Unsafe suggestion, discretion is advised:

Why after cannot?   Since it screws up the already conceived, and also the one yet to be conceived. The risk here is if fails to prevent implantation, no? So before and after, same risk altogether.
Yeah don't worry man. No biggie. Meanwhile, just have more sex lol. Do a pregnancy test in 2 weeks time, or when period is late.

How i know the protinor works? My gf period will come early? Does it necessary to have all the symptoms to show its effectiveness? Hope you can help me here. I bought it at guardian. White box with a flower shape right?

Kinda worry about it. Hopefully everything wil be fine. Any successfully stories here?

Do you worry about getting a sudden heart attack or dying from a car crash while walking on the road? It's the same risk level.

She consumed the pill and wait for the second one. I read the instructions mentioned some user might feel nausea or dizzy but until now my gf didn't feel anything hmm.. lets wait until a week later and see how la.

thanks bro. i heard that if the girl might vomit after taking the pill right? if vomit then have to consume the 2nd pill immediately right? my gf didnt vomit so only need to wait 12 hours later then continue with the 2nd pill right?

True true. Risk is best limited closest possible to 0.
So the safest action after an accident has been determined would be to just take the Postinor and not engage in unprotected sex, before of after the consuming the Postinor, haha. However, if one were to risk it slightly, should indulge only before consuming Postinor, not after.
Just my way of telling people that they shouldn't be scared.

It's called EMERGENCY contraceptive pills for a reason. If you have to use it so many times in a month, there's probably something wrong with your contraceptive methods.

Obviously too much of it will have some sort of side effects.

sadly I have a friend who think this bill is considered birth control method, even the side effects alone should waken up the people already....such thinking is very dangerous

Hi, I had sex with someone foreigner 2 days ago, he used condom but when he wanted to come out he came out outside but I see some water came out from bottom edge of condom, I dnt know is it dangerous or not?
I'm 17 malaysian muslim, and I can buy these ECP pills myself , how can I buy and where?, and how much is this
urgent , thank you