QUOTE(labellemiel @ Aug 23 2011, 10:59 AM)
Hi everyone, hope you can reply this A.S.A.P
I got this one friend who's so worry getting pregnant..
as told, she had unprotected sex with her boyfriend end of last month and for this month she missed her period. This is her first time and she don't know nothing about ECP., so, she was late for ECP right.. ( or isit she still able to take ECP and prevent pregnancy?)
up to this day, it has been 4 week and she "feel" she is pregnant.
I ask her to see doctor but she insist ( well, its so shameful to see doctor as she's not married)
she still studying and don't want to get pregnant at all..
as the "pregnancy" just 4 week-old ( in the development of fetus), she want to do abortion at the early stage
do you think, how can we help her..
she's so depressed..
Well at this early stage, what you can advise your "friend" to do is to perform a pregnancy test. The kit can be obtained from the pharmacy easily..
IF the signs are still positive, then ur "fren" needs to speak to her partner and discuss their options.
Abortion is an option but its not the only way. if ur fren thinks she is not up for it, then she can go to the clinic and opt for it.
Just dont ask her to use a hanger and do those stupid manual abortions.
tell ur fren to suck it up and go with her bf. it was not shameful to have sex before marriage but shameful to see doctor.
QUOTE(Pink Pagoda @ Aug 23 2011, 11:50 AM)
Labellemiel,
Before you help your friend by encouraging her to get an abortion. Please take note that illegal abortion if get caught, maximum 7 years imprisonment and fine for the doctor and patient. Also, have to consider the risk of complications during and/or after the procedure.
In malaysia, can only get abortion if it can save a woman's life or if she's unfit to be a mother by reason of insanity.
There is this abortion pill. However i think it can only be obtained from legally authorized clinics only. If your friend were to get the pills from illegal sources, she has to take the risks that the pills might not have the same quality (we all know nowadays anything can be replicated, even an egg!). The bottom line is that the pills may be hazardous to her health.
The mature thing to do is to ask the man to be responsible.
However, to each his own.
P/S: But she has not even taken any pregnancy test! Stress can also mess with a woman's period cycle.
well true enough there are pills available. and also the man should be responsible. But then she also needs to have the brains to get the man to wear condom rite?
well anyhow, the train has already left the station. you cant ask it to come back rite. so its up to the fren to think for herself as well.