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engtat
post Nov 5 2012, 01:10 AM

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As melaniekmk said, unfortunately we have this Fah Jie after she was kicked out.

Our case also same, the promised CL could not make it and this CL Fah Jie was sent.

What melaniekmk said is so d*mn true, so I stress out 3 important notes to her,

1. Meals
5 meals a day, afternoon time (3pm to 4pm) and night time (10pm to 11pm) at least prepare hot drink like Milo for my wife.

2. Hygiene
Clean the kitchen every day, and clean the table where my wife having her meal in her room. Basic cleaning, sweep and mop at least once every 2 or 3 days. My house only around 1,000 sqft.

3. The way she handles stuff
Be attentive and use the kitchen utensils or electronic devices with care

Problem with this CL so far (from Nov 1),
1. When she came on the first day, house was black out for 3 hours, she used the rice cooker inner pot on the gas stove, and I was like, the pot coating...
2. Dirty, never clean the kitchen until I told her to do so, and her cleaning is really like sh*t.
3. Dirty, I asked her to clean the table where my wife having the meal in her room, she used the kitchen towel to clean. vmad.gif If want to use the towel from kitchen, please make sure it is cleaned properly before using, cause she just left the oil stain on the table!
4. Dirty, she showers my baby with only one towel, even use that towel to clean his mouth and tongue!
5. Dirty, after so called she mopped the kitchen floor, next day still got ant groups, and she said she did not see it, the ant groups...
6. The Milo was poured out a bit to the floor, until I saw it, and asked her to clean, she cleaned one spot, and ignore others, saying she could not see sweat.gif
7. The Massimo bread crumbs was every where on the dining table after she had her breakfast. Ask her to wipe the dining table, the bread crumbs went to chair and floor...
8. She pushed us for earlier dinner, so she could clean up and go to bed before 10pm.
9. Never miss afternoon nap...we are still okay, but at night she snores like pig. My wife was supposed to stay with her in the same room, easy for bf, but my wife simply could not sleep not because of the baby cry, but her pig sound.
10. Keep insist on formula (so that she could have peaceful night and saying bf cannot feed enough my baby)...come on, only the first week, the mummy and baby were trying hard la, stop saying negative if not encouraging...
11. She always gives a lot of excuses, like when I said please shut the windows when using the hood, instead of follow instruction, she said, not supposed to give air in so kitchen not that hot meh doh.gif
12. We also scared she chipped our bowls...the way she handles, very careless, and bing bing bang bang noise.

This post has been edited by engtat: Nov 5 2012, 01:18 AM
engtat
post Sep 26 2013, 07:07 PM

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QUOTE(melaniekmk @ Sep 26 2013, 05:35 PM)
Hi Engtat!  Was just checking my account and only now I see your post.

Sorry to hear about your experience with this Fah Jie.  She is not fit to be a confinement lady.  I guess she is only doing it for the money and not for the professionalism that this job requires.  Another thing, I think the introducer Kuan Jie is also not a very honest person. Imagine, my husband complaint many many times to her about Fah Jie.  She should send out the news about this lady's problems and I'm sure the Confinement people's community is able to catch the news about it and get her blacklisted.

Btw Engtat, my slow cooker is cracked.  We only realised it after this Fah Jie left.  Damn her really!
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lol...it was like 10 months ago, next month my baby will reach age of 1...

 

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