Alright guys, i wanted to warm any of the parents here in engaging confinement lady from this company called SHL2U.com

Initially Janet (probably the owner) was very helpful in educating my wife and I in Chinese medicinal care for new born and mother, she arranged us a confinement lady goes by the name of Wan Jie (016-3670230). Name as per IC is Ngan Koon Eng @ 590225-10-5552.

Let me list down things she did making me an ass in my own house.

1. On the first day, the confinement lady has already has a list of item she needed for her personal consumption i.e. pre-mix coffee, condense milk, bread and etc. which i fulfill it with my own pocket money without any question.

2. She took me a ride to wet market buying things for her to cook for her own consumption, almost every weekend I had to go to wet market with her and spend easily RM500+, who the fuck in the world can eat that much of food ??? Yet again I used my money without any question, it is because i am not familiar with what a new mother supposed to consume during confinement hence I listen to this confinement lady advises.

3. She doesn't allow my wife to eat fish because she said it's not good for lady during confinement, yet again she used my money to buy fish for every weekend almost RM100++. She claim she cook the fish for my eldest daughter and me, but both of us not a big fan of fish except for my wife.

4. her cooking isn't suit to what my family used to. My wife would occasionally demand what she should cook for the day, that's where she started her fucked up attitude... saying my family didnt really follow Chinese traditional which is true but i couldn't care less that she commented that as she still cook as per what demanded.

5. 1st 2 weeks of caring my new born she was OK, I also notice that my new born isn't an easy to deal with but for a confinement lady it's should be normal in view of their years of experience dealing with kids and even the confinement center said that Wan Jie has umpteen year of experience in dealing with new born. However, I started to notice that Wan Jie start to slack and even being sarcastic to my wife when I am working in day time. Of which again i accommodate to it, saying to my wife she might be tired taking care of our newborn and it's only natural human can act out if we get tired. My wife and I ended up brushed it aside and forget about it.

6. Coming to the 3rd weeks, I started to notice that she taking advantage of my leniency... this is when I started telling her off that she doesnt stay forever with us, only left a week there's no need to do marketing anymore. She started to retaliate and complained to my mother when she visits us, show a mild agitation when talking to my wife and I. I take it very lightly as there's only 1 week to endure and she will be long gone thereafter which i planned to taking up with the confinement center once she left.

7. My wife and I has been very helpful and being independent in making sure her job is lighten up where she can focus her energy on my newborn, but again she not just didn't appreciate what we did but she spend her free time in watching TV...

8. Comes on final week, she complained to my wife and she has headache due to lack of sleep, on that night I offered her that both my wife and I take care of my newborn and she can have a proper sleep and continue the day after. Yet she refused our help and insist of taking care the baby... on the same night I heard my newborn cried very loud and immediately went silent ... i started to suspect something wrong.

The next morning, my wife notice both side of my baby cheek has imprint of square shape, my wife immediately contact me as we suspect she might used tape to tape the pacifier on my daughter's cheek to muffled her cry. The confinement lady was very defensive when my wife confronted her, on the same day when i am back to work... I told my wife to chase her out, my mother hold me back from scolding her (potentially hack her) and that's when she confessed that she did used tape to tape the pacifier on my daughter's mouth.

9. When we confront the confinement center (Janet) she laugh it off saying it's normal and even sarcastically saying when we even bother to file a police report. it's obvious that both the center and the confinement lady has been practicing this to other newborn.